Assalam aliekum
I know this post will be a bit off-topic, but to the comment about whether an Indian man would marry a widow with children as his only wife...due to the female infanticide, young brides, and sex-selection in the womb that is rampant in India, I have read that in many areas of India, for every 100 marriageable men, there are only around 60 marriageable women. This is a major problem in China as well. If an Indian man will totally refuse to marry widows with children (who, if the children are young, must be pretty young themselves), there are even fewer marriageable women available! Where do they think they will get brides from?
According to the World Factbook, in the "marriageable" age group, there are nearly 22 MILLION more men than women in India - in the 65 and older group, there are about 3 million more women than men. So, even if we add the elderly women to the numbers, that still comes out with a net of 19 million more adult men than adult women (adult = age 15 and up). Now I realize that all of these men may not be Muslims, but about 13% of Indians are Muslim - so 13% of the 19 million still leaves a rough estimate of 2.4 Million more men than women that could be Muslim. Where are they going to get their 1 wife, without even considering more than one?
Just something to think about....
Lana
:salam2:
This is the Islamic ruling regarding killing babies in womb.
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/40269/killing baby
This is the ruling that prohibits killing of foetus in womb. Most of the muslims who follow and implement deen are aware of this ruling. Those who don’t know ask scholars and know rulings. Muslims don’t do such killings here or elsewhere.
From the hindu view, The national law prohibits knowing gender of baby in womb. If someone does such sonography test it is considered serious crime and further penalized . This is the measure taken by Indian government so that unwanted killing of female baby be stopped. So that they can live as boys live.
Many times statistics are derived on the basis of ratio- proportion. They count population in 1 square kilometer or 10 square kilometer, then they roughly estimate, how many people would be residing in the total area under their survey . they have rough estimates that are not genuine figures. They don’t go home to home for survey. They also count population from voter ID, but only upto 55% votes here.
What counts is practical. The scenario of muslim people here from my life experiences is that there isn’t any problem for anyone in India to find a suit . They find match easily. There are no hassles. People marry and live life conveniently and comfortably. less Indians marry to people of other country, this is also because they get suits in their homelands. People here make no difference in girl and boy. Most of them give equal attention to both. (Ignoring the fact that there are also pople in any society that do distinction. Otherwise the world be much better place to live.) many many muslim girls schools here, mashaAllah, well disciplined and reliable institutes.
I see the people around me who marry from 20 to 40 years range. All of them get proper match. Many of my friends, relatives married to hindu girls and mashaAllah now pious muslimas.
Islamic committees and boards, orphan committees organize group marriages here of orphan children. They help man to earn livelihood. they also manage muslim welfare trusts.
If any brother wants to marry he gets a proper suit of his age. Still if anyone wants to marry widow than also he could do. Because there is nothing wrong from religion point of view here or elsewhere.
Because India and China are bigger,denser in population their problems look bigger.One has to look individual situation of Indian or Chinese muslims.
As for example,statistics too say that USA has maximum number of crimes per 1000 people,it has maximum number of drunkard politicians and senates,it has maximum [FONT="] [/FONT]number of rapists, it has presidents who believe in administrative terrorism and I make a comment regarding such stuffs.
But I am making mistake by associating American muslims with such statistics. so will it justify the status of muslims of USA. Although we know we have pious,Allah fearing and dedicated members here from USA, and many others living in USA.
so It would not be wiser to look statistics of people of any country, wiser would be to look their individual situation. We cannot measure all the people of country on the same scale.So better we make individual study of muslims instead of going into statistical data of whole country.