Have not been here in forever. Some know my story some don't. My EX-Husband is muslim, we share 3 children. I have since remarried. He however has developed a friendship with another muslim woman whose children go to school with our kids. She accompanies him everywhere (beach, pools, etc.) with and without her kids from her previous marriage (she divorced her American atheist husband when she came back to her faith.) At first she claimed they were just playdates between the kids, but if her kids are not always present that is an untrue statement. She cleans his house and plays with our kids at times. Meanwhile, he is telling the children that and has told me that he plans to marry a woman from his home country Tunisia as soon as he can. I told him that for someone trying so hard to be a "good muslim" he is leading with a poor example. Is it permissible for him to be spending time with the Muslim woman HERE whom he claims he feels nothing for and is not interested in her at all (though I am CERTAIN she believes they will become more) without a guardian???? And especially since he is "betrothed" to another? He argues that the children qualify as chaperones for them and that he is within his faith. I, as a christian, think that he is showing blatant disrespect to both women and confusing the children. What say you?