Shia Evil:Temporary Marriage> A Plea from A Muslim Sister

Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
Temporary Marriage> A Plea from A Muslim Sister


I was fourteen years old and my relationship with my parents was on the edge just like any other teenager. I started to become interested in boys. I felt as if no one understood me, not even my friends. I especially didn t feel pretty with my braces


It all changed when I met him . It was fascinating to know that a college student would care so much about me. He was the most wonderful person. He treated me like a queen, and soon we became the best of friends. I felt I could tell him anything. As our friendship progressed, we talked about different topics including religion. He had different beliefs than me; he was Shia while I was Sunni. We always argued upon the differences. He had a way with making things sound bettter than what they were. Soon I became very confused.


One day he mentioned the idea of Mut'a. He told me that it was a type of temporary marriage, which was halal even in Sunni books. At first I didn t believe him, but he used sources such as Bukhari and Muslim. I took his word for it, and before I realized, I was into a lot of trouble. I was in Mut'a for four years. As time went by, I learnt that I had lost my honor and dignity to someone who had done this to several other girls. Allah helped me open my eyes and realize what I had gotten myself into. By now, I was on the verge of switching beliefs to be a Shia. At this point, I decided to really search for the truth. Since I cannot present the whole research, I have tried to give a very brief idea about Mut'a.


I hope to inform and educate the people about the disease of Mut'a, which is spreading rapidly in the sunni community. It is the goal of certain Shia individuals to do Mut'a with innocent girls, who lack knowledge of religion and experience of life. They convince them with their beliefs, and create confusion in their minds. I beg every sister, brother, father, mother, and friend to take a closer look at their dear ones, and make sure they do not become victims to the concept of Mut'a.


Mut'a is a form of temporary marriage where a man can marry a woman for an agreed amount of time and money(mahr). In Mut'a, the husband is not financially responsible for the wife. There are no set limits in this kind of marriage by the Shias. According Shia beliefs, no witnesses nor a permission of the guardian is needed (the Sunni father does not believe in Mut'a), and there is no limit on the number of Mut'a one can do.
Also, the time period can be as little as one hour to as long as sixty years. In addition, a man who is permanently married can do as many Mut'a as he feels like, even with married women. This is very similar to prostitution indeed


In the history of Islam, The Prophet :saw: allowed Mut'a twice in his lifetime. The first time the Prophet :saw: allowed it for three days, at the war of Khaiber, and after three days it was made haram . Once Ali argued with a man who believed in Mut'a and told him that the Prophet made Mut'a and the meat of donkey haram on the day of Khaiber (Bukhari vol. 7, pg. 287 and vol. 4 pg. 134). This hadith can also be found in Shia hadith books, which I will mention later. The second time the Prophet :saw: allowed it was at the conquest of Mecca, for three days, and then he made it haram again till the day of Judgment (Muslim vol. 4 pg. 133). Notice, the practice of Mut'a was then made haram till the Day of Judgement.This is confirmed with the hadiths in the following books: Imam Ahmed s Musnad vol. 16 pg. 192-193, Muslim vol. 4, pg. 132, Bayhaki vol. 7 pg. 293-294. Since there was a time when Mut'a was halal. Therefore, one can find hadith saying that it was halal. However, the latter hadith, which follows the final order of jurisprudence set by the the Prophet:saw:, takes precedence over the former hadith.


Ninety-nine percent of the companions followed this opinion, but there was one percent who believed Mut'a can be performed in extreme case of necessity in the land of war. This one percent is divided into two groups. One says, it is allowed with the Caliph's permission, and the other says there is no need for the permission . Those who do not believe in Caliph's permission say that it was Umar who made it haram. Their proof is based upon an opinion by a companion namely Ibn Abbas. People misused this opinion of Ibn Abbas until he clarified himself and said, Wallahi I did not mean what they did! I meant similarly to what Allah meant when he allowed the meat of dead animals and pork to be eaten in extreme necessity. This is referring to the time when people abused the rule of necessity at time of Umar, following the understanding of the one percent. Finally, Umar declared and taught it to be haram when a lady came to Umar complaining about how her husband in Mut'a, who was married, would not take responsibility of the child. He realized how the society was becoming corrupt with similar conditions to adultery. Thus, he had to teach people and make Mut'a haram even in the case of the one percent opinion
The Shia themselves have a hadith narrated by Ali (r.a.a) which states that the Prophet made Mut'a haram on the day of Khaiber (Book of Tahdeeb: vol. 7, pg. 251, rewaya 10). The author states that Ali lied for the purposes of Taqiya. In Book of Istebsar: vol. 3, pg. 142, rewaya 5, there is a declaration by Ali that Mut'a is haram. Again they accuse Ali of lying for Taqiya.


With the given confusion in the books of Shias regarding Mut'a, and it being haram among the sunnis, should really make one think hard before believing that they are doing marriage in a halal way and in the name of Allah.
If Mut'a is not an excuse for satisfying lust, then what is it! It seems to be the easiest solution for adultery. If Mut'a really was to be done in case of need then why is it permissible for a married person to do Mut'a? Also, if one cannot marry due to financial insecurity then how can one be responsible for supporting the child and not be able to support the wife? And how is he going to know if the child is actually his, not someone else's?
The Shia also use the Qur an, Surah 4 ayah 24, as a reference to support Mut'a. They use this Ayah without consideration of the previous or following verses. The Ayah cannot be looked at alone. An example of this is Surah 107 verse 4 "So woe to the worshipers," If we look at this Ayah alone we would think Allah is angered by the worshipers, but if we read on it says in verse 5 "who are neglectful of their prayers." This gives a better understanding of what Allah is telling us. If we read till the end, we will get a better understanding of what Allah is trying to say.


Now, the Shia look at only surah 4 Ayah 24. When Allah says "Except for those all other are lawful, provided ye seek (them in marriage) with gifts from your property Desiring chastity, not lust," We take into consideration the Ayah before, that describes all the women forbidden for marriage. Surah 4 Ayah 23, Prohibited to you (for marriage) are-your mothers, daughters, sisters; father s sisters, mother s sisters;" Thus, when Allah says in Ayah 24 that all other are lawful we understand it as all other are lawful women.


The Ayah continues "seeing that ye derive enjoyment from them give them their dower (at least)" as prescribed The Shia say that Mut'a is the enjoyment-marriage that Allah is talking about, and that you pay for this enjoyment. To get a clear understanding of how we translate this Ayah we have to know this is a shariah hokoom (judgment) from Allah about the payment of the dower.


If a man marries a woman and then divorces her, there are four different scenarios that could happen concerning the dower. They are as follows:
1)A man does not enjoy his wife and he does not assign a dower.
2)A man does not enjoy his wife but he assigns a dower.
3)A man enjoys his wife but he doesn t assign a dower.
4)A man enjoys his wife but he doesn t pay the the assigned dower.
The first hokoom is in surah 2 verse 236, "There is no blame on you if ye divorce a women before consummation or the fixation of their dower: but bestow on them (a suitable gift)." There is also a hadith that the Prophet divorced a women before he touched her or assigned a dowery. He gave her some gifts (2 pairs of clothing), and then he released her.
The second hokoom is in surah 2 verse 237, "And if ye divorce them before consummation but after the fixation of a dower for them, then the half of the dower (is due to them)." The third hokoom is in surah 4 verse 4 And give their dower as an obligation;.. In Arabic, this word that has been translated into obligation can be more closely translated into standard obligation . So the man should pay to her what the Muslim society has made into a standard.


The last hokoom is if you assigned maher and enjoyed your wife you should pay it since you enjoyed her whether there is a divorce or not.
This hokoom is in surah 4 Ayah 24, "seeing that ye derive enjoyment from them give them their dower (at least) as prescribed; but if after a dower is prescribed, ye agree mutually (to vary it), there is no blame on you, and Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise." For the Shia, it is a law that you pay the dower before the enjoyment or else there cannot be a Mut'a. This Ayah is talking about coming to an agreement and discussing the payment of the dower even after the whole thing is over or paying it after the enjoyment. So we can see that Mut'a does not fit.


There are also other differences. If you keep reading to Ayah 5 it says, "If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hand possess and Allah hath full knowledge about your faith. Ye are one from another: wed them with the leave of their owners and give them their dowers, according to what is reasonable: they should be chaste not lustful.. This Ayah says that permission is needed from the guardian, and the Ayah continues teaching us about the differences in the law of the free believer and the right hand possess. In the end of the verse, it says that even to marry what the right hand possess is a big dislike to Allah that a person should not do unless he is really in danger of committing a big sin. Then Allah permitted to marry this group, but still suggested to be patient and have self control, since it is better for us. The same understanding can be seen in surah 23 Ayah 5-7. Allah teaches us that there are only two types of marriages allowed: the normal one and the marriage with the right hand posses. Whoever exceeds these two limits Allah says they are transgressors . How can Shia place the Mut'a in the previous Ayah when this Ayah clearly limits marriage to these two types?


Also in the Quran, we see that when ever Allah mentions marriage he also teaches us about divorce. When a man marries a chaste woman, and wants to leave her, he has to first divorce her. This can be seen in the following surah and Ayahs, 65:1, 2:231, 2:232, 2:236, 2:37, 33:49, 66:5
In Mut'a, there is no divorce; once you pay the set amount of money and the assigned time ends there is no rights, no duty, no inheritence laws, or divorce process. The only law is that the woman waits for a period of 45 days before she enters into another Mut'a, while the man can have immediate one, even while he is married or in another Mut'a. This goes against what Allah assigned for marriage in the Qura'n. In Surah 2 Ayah 228 Allah says, Divorced women shall wait concerning themselves for three monthly periods and it is not lawful for them to hide what Allah hath created in their wombs. If they have faith in Allah and the last day." In Mut'a she can be pregnant with the child of her first Mut'a husband and be married to her second Mut'a husband or the permanent. In the book of Mustadrak-Alwasa il (Shia authentic hadith book) vol. 7 book 3 pg. 506 rewayah 8762 ,it states that the prophet :saw: said that who ever cannot find the ability to get married let him fast, my ummah s protection is fasting. Also in Beharul-Alanwaar(Shia hadith book in vol.14 pg. 327 rewayah 50:21) it states that Imam Ali said and seek protection from women desire by fasting. What is the need for fasting if Mut'a is OK ? It is obvious that this contradict this idea .I hope and pray that we will take this matter seriously.


Everyday more and more girls in our community are falling victims to this idea presented by the Shia individuals. These girls are helpless in asking anyone for help, especially their parents. Please, teach and inform one another about the idea of Mut'a, and our beliefs regarding it. Please do it for the honor and dignity of our Islam and for the love of Allah!
 

aishajor

Junior Member
shar

i dont aggree with this ruling as it guves men the right to have sex with
prostetutes......and then divorces them after...

its sick, it show you have no repect for the wifes you have at home
 

abubaseer

tanzil.info
Staff member
Wa Alaykum As Salaam AKhee Azhar, Ukhti AlShajor

I entirely agree with you...and Alhamdulillah I'm not shia...I posted it just to show that fatawas like these are given by the Shia scholars even TODAY!

Really disgusting...

Many thanks to The Rahmaan who guided us the right path...way from such ignorance.
 

Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
Wa Alaykum As Salaam AKhee Azhar, Ukhti AlShajor

I entirely agree with you...and Alhamdulillah I'm not shia...I posted it just to show that fatawas like these are given by the Shia scholars even TODAY!

Really disgusting...

Many thanks to The Rahmaan who guided us the right path...way from such ignorance.

:salam2:

thats OKay, but please do not put links to Rafidah websites.. and not use attachment for it, it takes up precious server space to do attachment

I edited your post.

wasaalmu alaykum
 

Amir_of_spain

Junior Member
It suprises me on just how many muslims, even if they be shia, just blindly follow certain practises which go against common sense. Even just from a logical point of view, this whole idea of temporary marriage is completely flawed/false. Imagine getting married for just 60mins, ie getting a marriage contract which last for just 1 hour? so for that 1hour i have my fun and then we go out seperate ways after 60mins. Its a complete joke, the prophet never did this type of pseudo marriage and neither should any other reasonable, sensible muslim. And walahi if someone said this is from hadith, i would scrutinise such claims to the zenith and come back showing it is incorrect, as logic/reason will never go against allah's religion.
 

Al-Kashmiri

Well-Known Member
Staff member
As-salaamu `alaykum

I never spotted this. And you know what, now that I have... it's sticky time!
 

revert2007

Love Fishing
Bismillah.Assalamualikum.
It is good that someone could come up with this topic.In Malaysia recently there are many students from Iran and in my university itself there are more than 500 students and in other Malaysian University there are more than 2000 students in each university.As all of us know that Iran is 100percent shiah.Many Malay girls here are having relationship with these Iranian guys because sorry to say that their religion education is not that good.
Some of them here don't even know which country practiced shiah and which country doesn't.I got to know one of the lady staff in my university is going out with a shiah guy and am not sure whether they got married or just practicing Muta'a.It might be impossible to get marry in Malaysia becaise those at the religious department(pejabat agama) know who are shiah and who are not.because most of them got their education from Al-Azhar ,Egypt.
I just would like to ask all Malaysian especially the girls to be aware of this.Don't get cheat just because some claim that they are Islam.I am just afraid that shiah might spread widely in Malaysia soon because of the peple's ignorance about Islam.In my apartment itself there are many shiah couples living together and I don't think they got married through the halal way.Only Allah knows.
Salam.
 

ovomer

salam from pakistan!
:salam2:

thats OKay, but please do not put links to Rafidah websites.. and not use attachment for it, it takes up precious server space to do attachment

I edited your post.

wasaalmu alaykum

muta, :astag:
may allah keep us on the right path, ameen. thanks for giving us the information regarding muta.
wasalam
 

xAllahKnowsBestx

Junior Member
Astaghfirullah...

I find this very disgusting, how could people possibly go around tricking people into believing this is halal. Ughhh.. :girl3:
 

Abu_Muaviyah_125

New Member
It is true fact that Mutta'a is haram in Islam.....Mutta's Master (Male & Female couple) is continuously generating haram population in Muslim Countries as well. The reality is that "The Mutta Generated Child don't know the name of his legal father"
Everybody should be aware clearly that Shia'ism is not Islam......They are very ancient type of Tyrants/disloyal/rebel against Islam & Muslim. While the punishment of tyrants/mutiny/Insurgence is to be killed immediately (in this universe & at the day of judgement)
 
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zaman-gm

Junior Member
Should be protested. Pray for shia scholar to understand the sunnah of our Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.
Islam is not a commodity.
 
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