muslimeen1989
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Hope you all are in the best health and imaan.
I have had a problem with my older sister but its not apparent its more suttle sorry i am posting it here i just need to vent it all out because i keep everything locked up in me and i am really finding it hard to forgive her for her harsh words normally i will just laugh it off but now its getting to me and i feel that i am holding a grudge against her and i dont want that and its thursday tommorrow and i dont want my record to return to Allah with a grudge on it...... Help me i dont know how to let it goo she carries on like normal but her words ring in my head again and again
She calls me a "failure" and "Drop out" i know it may sound petty and small but my mum loves her most because she works goes to uni and shes not a "failure" in her eyes but i am looked down on and humiliated by my older sister. She is so arrogant and she always thinks shes right and she doesnt like to listen to me if i advise her, sometimes i feel she likes her friends more than me......
Sorry i wrote too much help me to forgive her its starting to hurt me and i cry when i sleep, but i put on a brave face and smile and be kind to her despite her attitude to me.
Hope you all are in the best health and imaan.
I have had a problem with my older sister but its not apparent its more suttle sorry i am posting it here i just need to vent it all out because i keep everything locked up in me and i am really finding it hard to forgive her for her harsh words normally i will just laugh it off but now its getting to me and i feel that i am holding a grudge against her and i dont want that and its thursday tommorrow and i dont want my record to return to Allah with a grudge on it...... Help me i dont know how to let it goo she carries on like normal but her words ring in my head again and again
She calls me a "failure" and "Drop out" i know it may sound petty and small but my mum loves her most because she works goes to uni and shes not a "failure" in her eyes but i am looked down on and humiliated by my older sister. She is so arrogant and she always thinks shes right and she doesnt like to listen to me if i advise her, sometimes i feel she likes her friends more than me......
Sorry i wrote too much help me to forgive her its starting to hurt me and i cry when i sleep, but i put on a brave face and smile and be kind to her despite her attitude to me.