Asallamualaikum Sister,
You know it is possible to spend quality time and be in service of your parents
and be married at the same time and be happy.
Remember the rights of one's husband/ wife (even wives!)/ children are completely distinct and Islam teaches us that we don't have to give up the rights of one group upon us to meet the needs of another... it's all a fine balancing act.
Allah is a fantastic teacher and we all acknowledge there is Hikmat (Wisdom) behind everything he does so that we learn from it right? PONDER upon the creation of Adam (AS) and how Allah created Hawa "Eve" (AS) for his companionship when Adam (AS) felt all alone and there was something missing. This is Allah's way of telling us an individual was never meant to be alone (without companion).
"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may dwell in tranquility with them and He has put love and mercy between your hearts: verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Surah Al Rum 30:21)
"And Allah has made for you Mates (and Companions of your own nature ..." (Surah Al Nahl 16:72)
Liste to the Quranic verse which says:
"They are your garments and you are their garments." (Surah Al Baqarah 2:187).
Indeed, spouses are like garments to each other because they provide one another with the protection, the comfort, the cover, the support, and the adornment that garments provide to humans. Just imagine a journey in the harshest winter in the coldest part of the world without garments! Our spouses provide us with the same level of comfort, protection, cover, and support in the spiritual journey of our lives on this earth as worldly garments provide in the winter journey.
The relationship between the spouses is the most amazing of all human relations: the amount of love and affection, intimacy and closeness, mercy and compassion, peace and tranquility that fills the hearts of the spouses is simply inexplicable.
May Allah give us the true taste of this in our lives.