justoneofmillion
Junior Member
assalamu aleikum,well brothers and sisters i have a question that may seem strange to some of you .i know that marriage is half of the deen and so on....but i wanted to ask: is it possible not to marry if one chooses too i mean is that haram if one fullfils all the other obligations,salat,fasting,zakat...etc and all the other jihads because i came accross a lot of women due to my previous profession as a musician and entertainer and have lost my esteem for women in generale somehow.... allhamdulillah Allah swt has guided me and took me away from that haram, the thing is i do not think any women would fulfill my expectations or would really understand where am coming from... i didn`t really have any model of women that i could relate to in a respectful manner due to my personal experience growing up in the west i just can not take`em seriously! don`t wanna hurt women or children i don`t like divorces ..don`t want them to suffer.....so is it okay not to marry?i understand this isn`t really an eloquent poem but it has the merit of being sincere no offence to any sister out there i love you all for the sake of allah swt
ps.do not go into any psychological speculation out there it is just that i was ,and i am still only exposed to western women and am fed up with their little self esteem and insistence that is all i know
p.s.s either i will have to go hunt for my wife in the moon nowdays or wear a gas mask for protection:lol:
ps.do not go into any psychological speculation out there it is just that i was ,and i am still only exposed to western women and am fed up with their little self esteem and insistence that is all i know
p.s.s either i will have to go hunt for my wife in the moon nowdays or wear a gas mask for protection:lol: