UGH! I need to vent!

DanyalSAC

Junior Member
On a side note - the open house that our masjid had that I mentioned in the original post was a huge success. Shaytan was working against us - everything that could go wrong did - one of the restaurants who promised to donate food to us refused to return our calls or to fulfill their pledge, another was downtown & due to a huge event there all streets were blocked so we couldn't get in to pick the food up & they couldn't get out to deliver - but none of us lost our patience or our faith in Allah azawajal. I read the English translation of the Quran to our guests - of course, I was nervous as all get out. The subject was "Islam's Contribution to Civilization". We had almost standing room only, with both the men's and women's side full. However, thanks to the blessings and grace of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala we had enough food to go around - just enough for everyone to eat their fill.

Our non-Muslim guests asked some very good questions ("Is this a Sunni or a Shia mosque?", "How did Mohammed's followers know his words came from God?", "Why do some Muslims in the news pray at shrines or graves?") and then stood in the back of the masjid and watched us as we prayed Maghrib. Afterwards the non-Muslims and the Muslims mingled (of course, the men and women remained separated by a barrier), they asked questions of us on one on one basis... it was pleasant.

As a show of good faith we always invite the FBI to send representatives to our masjid whenever we have a public event like this, and in the group (usually two or three) of agents they send there is always one particular individual who shows up unfailingly, and he always leaves with a handful of brochures or mushaf or books. Last night as he was putting his shoes on I greeted him and talked about the open houses of the past that he and I both attended. I jokingly pointed out that each time he leaves its with a handful of Islamic literature and that if he kept up that trend he would be taking shahadah and praying with us. He smiled and said "...perhaps..". That gave me quite a good feeling...!

To me, that was what da'wah was all about. And when we do it in the name of Allah, He guides us through it. I got to sleep late last night & woke up early for Fajr and for work, but the lack of sleep is worth it!
 

dilek

OntheWayOf ALLAH
Masaallah ya brother you and your friends are doing reallly good job there.. May Allah grant you all with beauties inshaallah.. at first step inshaallah with a family which is full of love, respect, and suuure nour of Islam :D
 

kayleigh

Junior Member
I don't think its wrong to sever ties and I don't think you should be upset or hurt over what those Muslim guys at his job were saying. Regardless of what hes done for you in the past, he's being disrespectful and inappropriate.
 

alf2

Islam is a way of life
Salaam to you Br. Dany!

I know how you feel, really. I am a revert and led a life like yours before reverting, astaghfirallah.

Its hard to leave a lifestyle, I had to cut ties with a lot of old friends who I loved dearly. And I do have a few friends who are non-Muslims, but when keeping friends who are non-Muslims, these people must be: Supportive, respective about keeping you away from Haraam things. For example, if your friend is asking you to do sinful things OR if he were to try to get you to drink alochol, hes not respecting you! Let him go.

Dont stay in the presence or someone who has no respect for you & your choices! You're better than that.

Trust in Allah even when it seems hard. :hearts:
 

Abdul Hasib

Student of Knowledge
Assalamu Aleykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakathuh dear brothers and sisters in Islam, and also to brother Danyal.

Subhanallah I just typed down a VERY long post right now with a lot of advise and with things that would (by Allah (SWT)'s will) make you feel better, but Subhallah (I testify in Allah (SWT)'s Lordship), the message got lost in a few seconds.

So because of that, I'll just try to breifly restate some of the things that I had typed up a few seconds ago:

1.) Try to explain yourself to that friend of yours: that you left that life you used to live before, and that now you've changed and want to be a good Muslim who obeys Allah (SWT).

2.) If he's tolerant towards the way you are now, then Alhamdulillah, everything's okay.

3.) But if he's INTELOERANT to the fact that you've decided to be a good practicing Muslim, then I'd say it's best to let him "hit the highway."

And I think it's best for you brother Danyal if you spend more time around those brothers in your Masjid that you Love for the Sake of Allah (SWT), because such an action is SO Pleasing to Allah (SWT) that his Mercy and Blessings are upon those gatherings and those companions who meet and Love eachother for His Sake, and on Yawmul Qiyyamah, they will be under trhe Shade of His Throne, Subhanahu wa Ta Alla. :)

And about the wife part, don't worry brother Danyal, many of us you brothers feel the same way as you do (LoL especially me! :)), but for sure, Allah (SWT) will give you that special perfect wife, and I am SURE of it, because I'm making dua for you brother, that Allah (SWT) will grant you what you desire and what you need, and that he will perfect this special relationship that will (Inshallah Ta Alla) exist between you and your futue wife :).

But for now, just try to do your best in being a Pious Muslim, and try your best to imitate the character and appearance of Rasulallah (SAW), be in the company of the Pious, and then, when the time is right, that special somebody will be with you in your arms with her hand upon your heart, and with your eyes looking at each other in Love and Happiness for the rest of Eternity, Ameen Ya Zal Jalali wal Ekram!
 
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