lions_den1
Ahle Sunnah wal Jama
American
i want to marry a ameriacan sister, no need to propose(lol) just make dua for me...
i want to marry a ameriacan sister, no need to propose(lol) just make dua for me...
:salam2:
it's sad when racism gets in the way. i've had it tough in the past. recently i came close to proposing to someone of a different race, which kind of helped me forget about my bad experiences. it didn't work out not because of race, i just don't think i was attractive enough for her even though she said it was " chemistry " her and i are cool and it has been nice knowing her.
what saddens me, is that she was one of the few from the middle eastern world that would ever give a black/hispanic person a chance. people of my racial background just have a hard time being accepted in islam. it bothers me because i know the religion doesn't teach that. to this day i may have only had one person really befriend me at the masjid. i know that a lot of these girls parents think that because of my race that i'm a drug dealer, gangsta, thief etc. but many of them would have no problem if their daughter married a white man. many of their parents really wish that they were white. they think that a white guy is going to bring success. it's a bunch of garbage. i often wonder what have blacks or puerto ricans have ever done to any of these people? i don't remember any of my ancestors invading or enslaving people in the middle east. i'm a good brother but i'm not good enough to marry their daughter. sometimes the way we're treated especially in this topic is very discouraging. i really wish it wasn't that way. but if you were to ask most black american or hispanic muslims about this, they'll say the same thing. the white muslim guy get's a little hard hit too because the born muslims are curious as to why this american " white man " accepted islam.
forgive me for my bitterness.
Assalam,no no no noway no TAJIIN not even friendship forget about brotherhood.kiss your own nose!!......haha just kidding welcome to TTi brother ,welcome amongst your brothers and sisters,hope you benefit from us as much as we from you inschallahi want to thank you for you participation in this forum and i hope that i'm welcome here .
my name is adil , i'm from morocco, i am muslim of course and i am so happy to be so.
my first thing to say is that there is no difference between arabe, americain, indian, or "Martian" only in one side the "Takwa".
for womens, they can choose every muslim they want BUT :
they must follow the haddith of my prophet mohammed salla ALLAH alaihi wa sallam:"ida jaa kom man tardawna dinaho wakholokaho fazawijoho wailla takon fitnaton fil ardi wa fasadon kabir" so the criteria that must be used are
religion islam and kholok, this are the fondamental things but we must search also for beauty, parents and the level of life but those criterias are secondary ones.
for men they must choose the Women with religion islam "Dine" and after they have to choose beauty coz it so important in this age of Fitan. and if the woman is rich it will better.
"Idfar bidati addini taribat yadak"
i hope that allah help us to find oursecond part in zawaj and give us tabat in this age of fittan, amiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin
wasalam alaikom warahmato allah wa barakatoh