Asalamualaikum Brothers and Sisters...
Since Marriage is important to all, or maybe, some of us... Please share what qualities and characters you prefer in your future husband or wife... Maybe it would help all of us in choosing the right person...
MAY ALLAH BLESS US ALL...
Assalaam walaikum,
Why would you fear men?
salam aleikum wa rahmatulahy wa barakatuh
good question dear sister, one that i honestly think about alot these days...one of the conclusions i reached is that i want him to be..to be like me, ofcourse in the masculine side....yes, how can i ask more or less then what i can give in exchange...is easy to make a list with a,b, c..but what we do when we face also the defects of the other person ?...
now the next step is to define ''me'' ; ''myself'' and what can complete the balance...inchallah
this is what i think.
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Walikumusalam Warehmatullahi Wabarakatuhu...
I agree with you sister... It's a good question that what to do if we face the defects of the other person... I think if a person has a defect we should accept it and look at the good qualities of that person... And also if one wants to see those qualities in his/her life partner... One should also try and improve his/herself... We all lack something...Because, nobody is perfect..
:salam2:
This is personal for me, because one of my best friends has cerebral palsy and walks with a cane. I really don't even notice it most of the time, because I choose to overlook that and see the person that he is on the inside. I would have no problems being with a sister who has a "defect", because I don't see what's on the outside anyway.
MASHALLAH Brother.. This shows how Nice person you are.. You have a good heart... and May ALLAH help your friend and give strength...