Aww tell her I said walaikumu salam And give her a BIG FAT hug from me LOOL and a few kisses as well im kidding, shes probably like WOOW!! BACK OFF!! lool
your in my duas dw, was it a sudden death..maybe it's just shock..
I know it's hard and this may sound silly, but try to think of other things and not that.
you'll be fine inshAllah
take lotsa care, fi amanillah x