Can't bear the pains, cant live..........

islam_best

Junior Member
Assalaamalaikum bros and sis,

I am writing this with complete hopelessness and UTTER pain. From the start of this year i had fallen in bad company. My life is completely ruined now. My grades from top to the lowest. In actual my friends, people whom i loved by heart blamed me for doing something i did not. I had so much trust in them but they kept suspecting me. I fell in grief and turned myself to bad things. I cause grief to my parents. My aim in life, the peace everything gone. I had realized my mistake long back but did not have the courage to wake up. I LOVE MY ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL AND MY NABI SALLAHUALAIHIWASSALAM. When i remember my days of piousness and peace i feel like crying but i cant. I wanted to do something to myself but again I LOVE MY LORD. No one has faith in me. The whole world is just fakkeee, no one understands anyone all are meaningfull. I grieve my parents and because of this i wish something happents to me. I have not a single person on earth to turn to noone. None understands me. O LORD BESTOW UPON ME YOUR GUIDANCE AND ALWAYS GUIDE ME TO THE RIGHT PATH. AMEEN. PlZ my bros and sis , with the hope left in my heart i aask you to pray for pray that My MASTER SHOWS ME HIS LIGHT AND MAKES ME FOLLOW IT, MAKES ME PIOUS AND HOLY, CLEANSE ME FROM MY HORRIBLE SINS, MAKES ME REALIZE THE ULTIMATE TRUTH AND FOLLOWS IT AND MAKE ME KNWDLGEABLE AND WISDOMFULL AND GIVES ME BACK MY NOOR.AMEEN AMEEN. plzz plzzz..............With great courage by ALLAH AZWAJAL"S MERCY i finished off all contacts with my friends. My parents dont speak to me. My sisters hate me. YA ALLAH DO NOT MAKE ME A HYPOCRITE, MAKE ME LOVE YOU,MY NABI SALLAHUALAIHIWASSALAM, MY FAMILY AND MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS HERE BY HEART. AMEEN. MY CREATOR THE MOST GLORIUS BE MY TEACHER AND TEACH ME MY STUDIES VERY WELL. IHDINAS SIRAATUL MUSTAKEEM. IHDINASSIRAATAL MUSTAKEEM.plz bros and sis you are my only hope in this life. plz make dua for me . I beg all of you plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Wassalaamalaikum
 

slaveofAllah88

Slave of Allah (swt)
aslam o alikum sister,
i know sometimes thiings become so thought it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, Allah (swt) knows best what happened but ALlah (swt) is rahmaan raheem, he will forgive sincerely repent and he will forgive once he has forgiven , you might have to go thru a really tough time but sister trust me inna ma as saberein, Allah (swt) is with those that are patient, so ur patience might be tested but it will rewarded at the end
please take care and stay strong u got ur bro and sis on the forum thou
take care
aslam o alikum
 

ShyHijabi

Junior Member
Salaam,

Brother, is there anything that Allah swt cannot do? No? Then now is the exact minute you can put your face to the floor and ask forgiveness. INsh'Allah if you do this with a true heart then Allah will run to forgive you.

As far as your parents go, this very second start turing your life around. Get back to praying your prayers on time, treat them like they are made of glass...with the upmost gentleness. Eagerly do the household chores and seek out their kindness and affection. IN all likelihood your parents will think your "mistakes" were a phase and breathe a sigh of relief.

If you do the right thing and change yourself NOW then you will be clean like a baby again. Isn't this religion wonderful and full of ease? All you have to do is repent and change your actions and viola! Forgiven.

Waslaam
 

IHearIslam

make dua 4 ma finals
Salaam,

Brother, is there anything that Allah swt cannot do? No? Then now is the exact minute you can put your face to the floor and ask forgiveness. INsh'Allah if you do this with a true heart then Allah will run to forgive you.

As far as your parents go, this very second start turing your life around. Get back to praying your prayers on time, treat them like they are made of glass...with the upmost gentleness. Eagerly do the household chores and seek out their kindness and affection. IN all likelihood your parents will think your "mistakes" were a phase and breathe a sigh of relief.

If you do the right thing and change yourself NOW then you will be clean like a baby again. Isn't this religion wonderful and full of ease? All you have to do is repent and change your actions and viola! Forgiven.

Waslaam

:salam2:
SubahaAllah, I could not add more to what my sister said! akhi, I will keep you in my duas:D
May Allah always help you and may HE SWT forgive all your sins and those of our brothers and sisters:D
Ya akhi, you have us here:D subhanaAllah, iam sure all who read your thread will make dua for you:D
Allah hafiz now and always:D:hearts:
 

a_stranger

Junior Member
:salam2:

I am sure your mother and father will understand , sure they will be upset and angry ........calm down tell them the Truth you have a wide future to do something good for the sake of Allah .........Don`t let shaytan decieve you our life is ending .........but let us end within the mercy of Allah swt. Life is too short to be spent in sadness and sorrow .........have more love to Allah swt and hope in his mercy.
 

Almeftah

Junior Member
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

(Al-Baqara 2) And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sâbirun (the patient) (155) Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly! To Allâh we belong and truly, to Him we shall return." (156) They are those on whom are the Salawât (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His Mercy, and it is they who are the guided-ones. (157)

(Al-Insan 76) Verily, the Abrâr (the pious and righteous) shall drink of a cup (of wine) mixed with (water from a spring in Paradise called) Kâfûr. (5) A spring wherefrom the slaves of Allâh will drink, causing it to gush forth abundantly. (6) They (are those who) fulfill (their) vows, and they fear a Day whose evil will be wide-spreading. (7) And they give food, inspite of their love for it (or for the love of Him), to Miskin[] (the poor), the orphan, and the captive, (8) (Saying): "We feed you seeking Allâh's Countenance only. We wish for no reward, nor thanks from you. (9) "Verily, We fear from our Lord a Day, hard and distressful, that will make the faces look horrible (from extreme dislike to it)." (10) So Allâh saved them from the evil of that Day, and gave them Nadhrah (a light of beauty) and joy. (11) And their recompense shall be Paradise, and silken garments, because they were patient. (12) Reclining therein on raised thrones, they will see there neither the excessive heat of the sun, nor the excessive bitter cold, (as in Paradise there is no sun and no moon). (13) And the shade thereof is close upon them, and the bunches of fruit thereof will hang low within their reach. (14) And amongst them will be passed round vessels of silver and cups of crystal — (15) Crystal-clear, made of silver. They will determine the measure thereof (according to their wishes). (16) And they will be given to drink there of a cup (of wine) mixed with Zanjabîl (ginger). (17) A spring there, called Salsabîl. (18) And round about them will (serve) boys of everlasting youth. If you see them, you would think them scattered pearls. (19) And when you look there (in Paradise), you will see a delight (that cannot be imagined), and a great dominion. (20) Their garments will be of fine green silk, and gold embroidery. They will be adorned with bracelets of silver, and their Lord will give them a pure drink. (21) (And it will be said to them): "Verily, this is a reward for you, and your endeavour has been accepted." (22)

Dear Brother, Remember Allah Subhanah, and read His Holy Book..

(Ar-Rad 13) Those who believed (in the Oneness of Allâh - Islâmic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allâh, Verily, in the remembrance of Allâh do hearts find rest[] (28)
 
:salam2:

may Allah answer your prayers:

Here is a story of Ayuob alayhi assalam:

Prophet Job (Ayoub)





Ibn Ishaaq stated that he was a man of Rum. His name was Job, Ibn Mose, Ibn Razeh, Ibn Esau, Ibn Isaac (pbuh), Ibn Abraham (pbuh).

Someone else said he was Job, Ibn Mose, Ibn Rimil, Ibn Esau, Ibn Isaac, Ibn Jacob.

There have also been other statements on his lineage. Ibn Asaker narrated that his mother was a daughter of Lot (pbuh). It was said, also that his father was one who believed in Abraham (pbuh) when he was cast into the fire. The first opinion is the most plausible, because he was a descendant of Abraham's offspring as Allah Almighty declared: "That was Our proof which We gave Abraham against his people. We raise whom We will in degrees. Certainly your Lord is All-Wise, All Knowing. And We bestowed upon him Isaac and Jacob, each of them We guided and before him, We guided Noah, and among his progeny David, Solomon, Job, Joseph, Moses, and Aaron.

Thus do We reward the good doers. (Ch 6:83-84) Allah the Almighty praised His worshipper Job in His Glorious Quran: Truly! We found him patient. How excellent a slave! Verily, he was ever oft returning in repentance to Us! (Ch 38:44) Job (pbuh) was repentant, remembering Allah with thankfulness, patience, and steadfastness. This was the cause of his rescue and the secret of Allah's praising him.

A group of angels were discussing Allah's other human creatures, how those who were humble earned Allah's pleasure, while those who were arrogant incurred His displeasure. One of the angels remarked: "The best creature on earth today is Job, a man of noble character who displays great patience and always remembers his Generous Lord. He is an excellent model for the worshippers of Allah. In return, his Lord has blessed him with a long life and plenty of servants, as well as the needy and the poor share in his good fortune; he feeds and clothes the poor and buys slaves to set them free. He makes those who receive his charity feel as if they are favoring him so kind and gentle is he." Iblis overhearing all of this, became annoyed. He planned to tempt Job to corruption and disbelief, so he hastened to him. He tried to distract Job from his prayers by whispering him about the good things in life but Job was a true believer and would not let evil thoughts tempt him. This disturbed Iblis even more; thus he began to hate Job even more. Iblis complained to Allah about Job. He said that although he was continuously glorifying Allah he was not doing so out of his sincerity but to satisfy Allah so that his wealth should not be taken away. It was all a show, all out of greed. "If You remove his wealth then You will find that his tongue will no longer mention Your name and his praying will stop."

Allah told Iblis that Job was one of His most sincere devotees. He did not worship Him because of the favors; his worship stemmed from his heart and had nothing to do with material things. But to prove to Iblis the depth of Job's sincerity and patience, Allah allowed him to do whatever he and his helpers wished with Job's wealth. Iblis was very happy. he gathered his helpers and set about destroying Job's cattle, servants and farms until he was left with no possessions. Rubbing his hands in glee, Iblis appeared before Job in the guise of a wise old man and said to him: "All your wealth is lost, some people say that it is because you gave too much charity and that you are wasting your time with your continuous prayers to Allah. Others say that Allah has brought this upon you in order to please your enemies. If Allah had the capacity to prevent harm, then He would have protected your wealth." True to his belief, Job replied: "What Allah has taken away from me belongs to Him. I was only its trustee for awhile. He gives to whom He wills and withholds from whom He wills." With these words, Job again prostrated to his Lord. When Iblis saw this, he felt frustrated,

so he again addressed Allah: "I have stripped Job of all his possessions, but he still remains grateful to You. However he is only hiding his disappointment, for he places great store by his many children. The real test of a parent is through his children. You will see how Job will reject You." Allah granted Iblis authority but warned him that it would not reduce Job' faith in His Lord nor his patience. Iblis again gathered his helpers and set about his evil deeds. He shook the fountain of the house in which Job's children were living and sent the building crashing, killing all of them. Then he went to Job disguised as a man who had come to sympathize with him. In a comforting tone he said to Job: "The circumstances under which your children died were sad. Surely, your Lord is not rewarding you properly for all your prayers." Having said this, Iblis waited anxiously hoping Job was now ready to reject Allah.

But again Job disappointed him by replying: "Allah sometimes gives and sometimes takes. He is sometimes pleased and sometimes displeased with our deeds. Whether a thing is beneficial or harmful to me, I will remain firm in my belief and remain thankful to my Creator." then Job prostrated to his Lord. At this Iblis was extremely vexed. Iblis called on Allah. "O my Lord, Job's wealth is gone, his children are dead, and he is still healthy in body, and as long as he enjoys good health he will continue to worship You in the hope of regaining his wealth and producing more children. Grant me authority over his body so that I may weaken it. He will surely neglect worshipping You an will thus become disobedient."

Allah wanted to teach Iblis a lesson that Jo was a devoted servant of his Lord so He granted Iblis his 3rd request but placed a condition: "I give you authority over his body but not over his soul, intellect or heart, for in these places reside the knowledge of Me and My religion."

Armed with this new authority, Iblis began to take revenge on Job's body and filled it with disease until it was reduced to mere skin and bone and he suffered severe pain. But through all the suffering Job remained strong in his faith, patiently bearing all the hardships without complaining. Allah's righteous servant did not despair or turn to others for help but remained hopeful of Allah's mercy. Even close relatives and friends deserted him. Only his kind, loving wife stayed with him. In his hour of need, she showered her kindness on him and cared for him. She remained his sole companion and comforter through the many years of suffering. Ibn Asaker narrated: "Job was a man having much wealth of all kinds; beats, slaves, sheep, vast lands of Haran and many children. All those favors were taken from him and he was physically afflicted as well. Never a single organ was sound except his heart and tongue, with both of which he glorified Allah, the Almighty all the time day and night. His disease lasted for a long time until his visitors felt disgusted with him. His friends kept away from him and people abstained from visiting him. No one felt sympathy for him except his wife. She took good care of him, knowing his former charity and pity for her."

Therefore Iblis became desperate. He consulted his helpers, but they could not advise him. They asked : "How is it that your cleverness cannot work against Job, yet you succeeded in misleading Adam the father of man, out of Paradise?" Iblis went to Job's wife in the form of a man. "Where is your husband?" he asked her. She pointed to an almost lifeless form crumbled on the bed and said: "There he is, suspended between life and death." Iblis reminded her of the days, when Job had good health, wealth and children. Suddenly, the painful memory of years of hardship overcame her, and she burst into tears. She said to Job: "How long are you going to bear this torture from our Lord? Are we to remain without wealth, children or friends forever? Why don't you call upon Allah to remove this suffering?" Job sighed, and in a soft voice replied : "Iblis must have whispered to you and made you dissatisfied. Tell me how long did I enjoy good health and riches?" She replied: "80 years." Then Job replied: "How long am I suffering like this?" She said: "7 years." Job then told her: "In that case I am ashamed to call on my Lord to remove the hardship, for I have not suffered longer than the years of good health and plenty. It seems your faith has weakened and you are dissatisfied with the fate of Allah. If I ever regain health, I swear I will punish you with a hundred strokes! From this day onward, I forbid myself to eat or drink anything by your hand. Leave me alone and let my Lord do with me as He pleases." Crying bitterly and with a heavy heart, she had no choice but to leave him and seek shelter elsewhere. In this helpless sate, Job turned to Allah, not to complain but to seek His mercy: "Verily! distress has seized me and You are the Most Merciful of all those who show mercy." so We answered his call, and we removed the distress that was on him, and We restored his family to him (that he had lost), and the like thereof along with them as a mercy from Ourselves and a Reminder for all who worship Us." (Ch 21:83-84) Almighty

Allah also instructed: "Remember Our slave Job, when he invoked His Lord saying: "Verily! Satan has touched me with distress (by losing my health) and torment (by losing my wealth)!" Allah said to him: "Strike the ground with your foot: This is a spring of water to wash in and cool and a refreshing drink." And We gave him back his family, and along with them the like thereof as a Mercy from Us, and a reminder for those who understand. (Ch 38:41-43) Job obeyed and almost immediately his good health was restored. Meanwhile, his faithful wife could not longer bear to be parted from her husband and returned to him to beg his forgiveness, desiring to serve him. On entering her house, she was amazed at the sudden change: Job was again healthy! She embraced him and thanked Allah for His mercy. Job was not worried, for he had taken an oath to punish her with a hundred strokes if he had regained health but he had no desire to hurt her. He knew if he did not fulfill the oath, he would be guilty of breaking a promise to Allah. Therefore in His wisdom and mercy, Allah came to the assistance of His faithful servant and advised him: "take in your hand a bundle of thin grass and strike therewith your wife, and break not your oath." Truly! We found him patient. How excellent a slave! Verily, he was ever oft returning in repentance to Us!" (Ch 38:44) Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: "While Job was naked, taking a bath, a swarm of gold locusts fell on him, and he started collecting them in his garment. His Lord called him: "O Job! Have I not made you too rich to need what you see?" He said: "Yes, My Lord! But I cannot shun Your Blessings." (Al Bukhari)

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:wasalam:
 

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
oh sister , why do you think like that..allah is surely with u, and i guess allah is testing you..Sister keep trust in allah..and love allah, sister may allah give you the noor back, and may allah bring your whole family back to you..and may allah make the same old islamic girl...sister in islam,i mean every human does sins, and allah is the merciful, sister allah is closer to you then the vein of the heart, ..trust allah.. allah will surely bestow mercy upon you (ameen)
 

~Ali_

Fixing da foundation
Assalamualaikum sister, I do not know if I can further the beautiful advice given here by the other brothers and sisters. But know that until you die, you have the oppurtunity to seek forgiveness and become a better muslimah - ofcourse the path is never easy. Allah swt mentions in the Quran that just because we say "we believe" doesnt mean we are not going to get tested.

The test is hard.
The rewards are worth it.
The test is hard.
Failure is eternal damnation.

Sister, which outcome would you like?
May Allah swt grant you strength, iman and good health - ameen.

Walaikumasalam
 

kashif_nazeer

~~~Alhamdulillah~~~
Assalaamalaikum bros and sis,

I am writing this with complete hopelessness and UTTER pain. From the start of this year i had fallen in bad company. My life is completely ruined now. My grades from top to the lowest. In actual my friends, people whom i loved by heart blamed me for doing something i did not. I had so much trust in them but they kept suspecting me. I fell in grief and turned myself to bad things. I cause grief to my parents. My aim in life, the peace everything gone. I had realized my mistake long back but did not have the courage to wake up. I LOVE MY ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL AND MY NABI SALLAHUALAIHIWASSALAM. When i remember my days of piousness and peace i feel like crying but i cant. I wanted to do something to myself but again I LOVE MY LORD. No one has faith in me. The whole world is just fakkeee, no one understands anyone all are meaningfull. I grieve my parents and because of this i wish something happents to me. I have not a single person on earth to turn to noone. None understands me. O LORD BESTOW UPON ME YOUR GUIDANCE AND ALWAYS GUIDE ME TO THE RIGHT PATH. AMEEN. PlZ my bros and sis , with the hope left in my heart i aask you to pray for pray that My MASTER SHOWS ME HIS LIGHT AND MAKES ME FOLLOW IT, MAKES ME PIOUS AND HOLY, CLEANSE ME FROM MY HORRIBLE SINS, MAKES ME REALIZE THE ULTIMATE TRUTH AND FOLLOWS IT AND MAKE ME KNWDLGEABLE AND WISDOMFULL AND GIVES ME BACK MY NOOR.AMEEN AMEEN. plzz plzzz..............With great courage by ALLAH AZWAJAL"S MERCY i finished off all contacts with my friends. My parents dont speak to me. My sisters hate me. YA ALLAH DO NOT MAKE ME A HYPOCRITE, MAKE ME LOVE YOU,MY NABI SALLAHUALAIHIWASSALAM, MY FAMILY AND MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS HERE BY HEART. AMEEN. MY CREATOR THE MOST GLORIUS BE MY TEACHER AND TEACH ME MY STUDIES VERY WELL. IHDINAS SIRAATUL MUSTAKEEM. IHDINASSIRAATAL MUSTAKEEM.plz bros and sis you are my only hope in this life. plz make dua for me . I beg all of you plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Wassalaamalaikum

wa 'alykumassalaam warehmatullahi wabarakatuhu.
Masha'allah sister now that you have realised your fault,its enough and verily Allah is oft forgiving Most Merciful the repentant servant is more dear to Allah than a person who looses his camel in the middle of desert which has all its good and livelihood and gives up hope and lies awaiting death,suddenly his camel returns ,the joy which the person feels is nothing compared to joy Allah feels when a repentant servant returns to Him.
My dear brothers and sisters have given you beautiful advices.
Also I would like to quote something for you:
Ten Lessons Ibn al-Mubarak Taught Us


In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful


‘Abdullah bin al-Mubarak was a scholar known for simultaneously combining numerous traits of virtue. In fact, his friends would sit and count all of the good things that were part of his character and personality. adh-Dhahabi related that they said: “Let’s sit and count the good traits that Ibn al-Mubarak has.” So, they ended up listing: “Knowledge, Fiqh, literature, grammar, language, zuhd, eloquence, poetry, praying at night, worship, Hajj, Jihad, bravery, instinct, strength, speaking little in what doesn’t concern him, fairness, and lack of conflict with his companions.”

Reading through his life story, one sees exactly this and cannot help but to derive brief yet heavy lessons from how this man lived.

1- No matter how bad you think you are, you can always become better.

In ‘Tartib al-Madarik’ (1/159), al-Qadi ‘Iyad mentioned that Ibn al-Mubarak was asked about the circumstances in which he began studying. He replied: “I was a youth who drank wine and loved music and singing while engaging in these filthy acts. So, I gathered some friends to one of my gardens where there were sweet apples, and we ate and drank until we passed out while drunk. At the end of the night, I woke up and picked up the stringed oud and began singing:



Isn’t it time that you had mercy on me * And we rebel against those who criticize us?


And I was unable to pronounce the words as I intended. When I tried again, the oud began speaking to me as if it were a person, saying the verse: {“Isn’t it time for the hearts of those who believe to be affected by Allah’s reminder?”} [al-Hadid; 16] So, I said: “Yes, O Lord!” And I smashed the oud, spilled the wine, and my repentance with all its realities came by the grace of Allah, and I turned towards knowledge and worship.”


2 - You should associate with honorable people.

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/323), Ibn al-Jawzi mentioned: “Ibn al-Mubarak’s home in Marw was vast. It measured fifty square yards. There was no person known for knowledge, worship, manhood, or high status in Marw except that you saw him in this house.”

3 - You should be a helpful guest.

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/324), it is narrated that when an-Nadr bin Muhammad’s son got married, he invited Ibn al-Mubarak, “and when he arrived, Ibn al-Mubarak got up to serve the guests. an-Nadr did not leave him and swore that he would tell him to leave until he finally sat down.”

4 - You should give money to the poor.

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/327), Ibn al-Jawzi mentions that Ibn al-Mubarak “would spend a hundred thousand dirhams a year on the poor.”

5 - You should always return borrowed items to their owners.

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/329), al-Hasan bin ‘Arafah said that ‘Abdullah bin al-Mubarak told him: “I borrowed a pen from someone in Sham, and I intended to return it to its owner. When I arrived in Marw (in Turkmenistan!), I saw that I still had it with me. Abu ‘Ali (al-Hasan’s nickname), I went all the way back to Sham to return the pen to its owner!”

6 - You should be brave, and hide your good deeds:

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/329), ‘Abdah bin Sulayman said: “We were on an expedition in the lands of the Romans with ‘Abdullah bin al-Mubarak. We met the enemy, and when the two armies met, a man came out from their side calling for a duel. One of our men went out to him and dueled with him for an hour, injuring him and killing him. Another came out, and he killed him. He called for another duel, and another man came out. They dueled for an hour, and he injured and killed him as well. The people gathered around this man, and I was with them, and saw that he was covering his face with his sleeve. I took the edge of his sleeve and pulled it away to find that it was ‘Abdullah bin al-Mubarak,” and in the version reported by adh-Dhahabi, he made him swear not to reveal his identity until the day he died.

7 - You should have a tender heart.

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/330), al-Qasim bin Muhammad said: “We were on a journey with Ibn al-Mubarak, and I was always asking myself: what is so special about this man that he is so famous? If he prays, so do we. If he fasts, so do we. If he fights, so do we. If he makes Hajj, so do we.

One night, we spent the night in a house travelling on the way to Sham. The lamp went out, and some of us woke up. So, he took the lamp outside to light it, and stayed outside for a while. When he came back in with the lamp, I caught a glimpse of Ibn al-Mubarak’s face, and saw that his beard was wet with his tears. I said to myself: “This fear of Allah is what has made this man better than us. When the lamp went out and we were in darkness, he remembered the Day of Resurrection.”"

8 - You should be generous to your friends.

In ‘Sifat as-Safwah’ (2/329), Isma’il bin ‘Ayyash said: “I don’t know of a single good trait except that Allah has placed it in ‘Abdullah bin al-Mubarak. My friends told me that they were travelling with him from Egypt to Makkah, and he was serving them khabis (a sweet flour dish) while he was fasting the entire trip.”

9 - You should not give in to Satan’s whispers.

In ‘Tartib al-Madarik’ (1/159), it is related that Ibn al-Mubarak was making ablution, and Satan came to him and said: “You did not wipe over this part of your body.” Ibn al-Mubarak said: “I did.” Satan said: “No, you didn’t.” So, Ibn al-Mubarak said: “You are the one making the claim, and you must therefore bring proof to back the claim up.”

10 - You should sincerely pray for people to accept Islam.


In ‘Tartib al-Madarik’ (1/162), it is related that al-Hasan bin ‘Isa bin Sirjis would walk by Ibn al-Mubarak, and he was a Christian. Ibn al-Mubarak asked who he was, and was told: “He is a Christian.” So, Ibn al-Mubarak said: “O Allah, grant him Islam.” So, Allah answered his supplication and al-Hasan became an excellent Muslim, and he travelled to seek knowledge and became one of the scholars of the Ummah.”
Best wishes.
Ma'salamat
 

islam_best

Junior Member
Jazakallahkhair

Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakathu,

Jazallahkhair bros and sis for putting in me so much hopes and making Duas for me. Really i really hope that ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL blessess all of you here. May Allah Azwajal grant us His Mercy, Blessings and Peace. Ameen. plz remember me in prayer and again i dont have words to thank you except Ya Allah! Ihdinas siraatal mustakeem. May Allah The Most Gracious guide us to the right path till our death and save us fromt the torment of the Day of Judgement and grant us Jannah in the hereafter. Ameen.
 
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