Isra
aka Tree2008
As salamo alaikome
Sister Revert I am a bit disappointed in your response to sister hayat84. Please forgive me if this comes across as being rude which I do not intend to be but you have involved yourself in my marriage and seem very concerned as to whether or not my marriage is accepted according to Islam yet I never asked for your advice and only posted out of happiness at my recent marriage. I expected congratulations and not the third degree. I understand that you are concerned because I am a revert and you want to be sure that I was fully aware of what I was doing but here is sister hayat84 who is actually ASKING your advice and yet you make her feel as if she should already know that information and basically you flat out refused to answer her questions. I might have misunderstood your posts but this is the impression that I am getting from what I have read. If I am wrong please correct me and forgive my error.
As for me I am sure I am legally married and in my first post I stated that I will be having a gathering to announce our marriage to family and in that gathering an Imam will be present so anything that was missing from my first ceremony can be taken care of then. This will happen very soon and my husband will talk to the Imam prior to the ceremony but really I have no doubt since the Imam is the one who referred us to the Adoul in the first place when we asked him to marry us Islamically.
Sister Revert I am a bit disappointed in your response to sister hayat84. Please forgive me if this comes across as being rude which I do not intend to be but you have involved yourself in my marriage and seem very concerned as to whether or not my marriage is accepted according to Islam yet I never asked for your advice and only posted out of happiness at my recent marriage. I expected congratulations and not the third degree. I understand that you are concerned because I am a revert and you want to be sure that I was fully aware of what I was doing but here is sister hayat84 who is actually ASKING your advice and yet you make her feel as if she should already know that information and basically you flat out refused to answer her questions. I might have misunderstood your posts but this is the impression that I am getting from what I have read. If I am wrong please correct me and forgive my error.
As for me I am sure I am legally married and in my first post I stated that I will be having a gathering to announce our marriage to family and in that gathering an Imam will be present so anything that was missing from my first ceremony can be taken care of then. This will happen very soon and my husband will talk to the Imam prior to the ceremony but really I have no doubt since the Imam is the one who referred us to the Adoul in the first place when we asked him to marry us Islamically.