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salam to all.
i have a sister who is 16 years old.
i found out from mum today that she was caught speaking on her mobile late at night about 11pm.
when she confronted her she told her she wasnt speaking to anyone and promised on the quran that that was the truth.
mum took her mobile and gave it to me today. mum told me at 1am in the morning my sister received a message and mum wants me to read it.
i wasnt really happy with what i read but told mum it was just a friend asking if she was awake.
i stuck up for my sister so i can handle the problem because my mum is very ill and is really not upto or fit to handle this problem.
i read my sisters messages and didnt know if it was haram to do but i was concerned and wanted to know who these guys were. she said they were just friends. i read the messages infront of her and went silence.
i could tell my sister was involved with boys / boyfriend and she has a few crushes at the same time and its making her confused and depressed.
when i spoke to her she denied it and said they are made up messeges and there is no boyfriend or boys and doesnt know what im talking about.
HOW DO YOU HANDLE THIS! i dont want her to fall into haram. she keeps saying they are boys and they are all like brothers to her because they are muslim. i told her if they are brothers to you they will not call you 11pm at night.
she said to me 'you dont understand this friendship we have' and cried because no one understands her and she cant trust anyone.
what do i do? if you found this about your little sister what will you do?:tti_sister:
help me please. mum doesnt want her to go to school anymore. and she doesnt want her to work. she fears for her. mum wants her to stay at home to protect her.
i have a sister who is 16 years old.
i found out from mum today that she was caught speaking on her mobile late at night about 11pm.
when she confronted her she told her she wasnt speaking to anyone and promised on the quran that that was the truth.
mum took her mobile and gave it to me today. mum told me at 1am in the morning my sister received a message and mum wants me to read it.
i wasnt really happy with what i read but told mum it was just a friend asking if she was awake.
i stuck up for my sister so i can handle the problem because my mum is very ill and is really not upto or fit to handle this problem.
i read my sisters messages and didnt know if it was haram to do but i was concerned and wanted to know who these guys were. she said they were just friends. i read the messages infront of her and went silence.
i could tell my sister was involved with boys / boyfriend and she has a few crushes at the same time and its making her confused and depressed.
when i spoke to her she denied it and said they are made up messeges and there is no boyfriend or boys and doesnt know what im talking about.
HOW DO YOU HANDLE THIS! i dont want her to fall into haram. she keeps saying they are boys and they are all like brothers to her because they are muslim. i told her if they are brothers to you they will not call you 11pm at night.
she said to me 'you dont understand this friendship we have' and cried because no one understands her and she cant trust anyone.
what do i do? if you found this about your little sister what will you do?:tti_sister:
help me please. mum doesnt want her to go to school anymore. and she doesnt want her to work. she fears for her. mum wants her to stay at home to protect her.