LoveofAllah
Junior Member
Salam alaikum
I can see that some of you are very passionate about this issue. However, my post was somewhat misinterpreted.
Point 1:
I dont care about what non-muslim men do. We have Islam, so shame on us if we behave as animals.
Point 2:
I dont care who raised you. If a human being is aggressive towards another human being he will be punished. He wont be excused because his parents didnt teach him better. Although i do agree it is very important to raise children properly but to say a woman raised him is wrong. Thats the problem in our society because muslim men are not playing a role in raising children properly. Assume it is their job just to work. What about teaching children proper religion, morals, values? It is a collective responsibility
Point 3:
Allah swt created us in a natural state. He created us to feel guilt. He gave us logic and reason. No matter where you grew up, every human being knows that it is not okay to hurt another.
Point 4:
My intention is not to cause fitna by saying this. But Muslim men need to step up. How dare you say problems such as these are caused because women arent covering properly? Cmon, think about what you are saying. How low can our society be?
These problems arise because of our lack of understanding of Islam. Not because women arent covering. This isnt a blame game.
Lastly, I am hurting inside because of what my father did. So if people say its because women dont cover that he did that....ofcourse it will anger me. He did that because my father doesnt fear Allah. Because he doesnt pray or read quran. Because his family didnt raise him to learn good manners as our prophet taught us.
Please dont take offence to what i say. But no one can know how it feels if you arent in the situation. My mother was the best wife, and mother. This is not her fault. All her life she suffered. Since day one my father has hurt her. Domestic violence is a big problem in our community and we need to step up and deal with it.
The reality is, its men who are beating women. Am i right? So stop making excuses and make changes. No one deserves to be abused. How dare anyone justify it? Who are we to punish someone? We need to be humble, how dare we think we can punish others....
Even if the woman is at fault, a man should fear Allah and know that Allah is the Judge and not him.
I can see that some of you are very passionate about this issue. However, my post was somewhat misinterpreted.
Point 1:
I dont care about what non-muslim men do. We have Islam, so shame on us if we behave as animals.
Point 2:
I dont care who raised you. If a human being is aggressive towards another human being he will be punished. He wont be excused because his parents didnt teach him better. Although i do agree it is very important to raise children properly but to say a woman raised him is wrong. Thats the problem in our society because muslim men are not playing a role in raising children properly. Assume it is their job just to work. What about teaching children proper religion, morals, values? It is a collective responsibility
Point 3:
Allah swt created us in a natural state. He created us to feel guilt. He gave us logic and reason. No matter where you grew up, every human being knows that it is not okay to hurt another.
Point 4:
My intention is not to cause fitna by saying this. But Muslim men need to step up. How dare you say problems such as these are caused because women arent covering properly? Cmon, think about what you are saying. How low can our society be?
These problems arise because of our lack of understanding of Islam. Not because women arent covering. This isnt a blame game.
Lastly, I am hurting inside because of what my father did. So if people say its because women dont cover that he did that....ofcourse it will anger me. He did that because my father doesnt fear Allah. Because he doesnt pray or read quran. Because his family didnt raise him to learn good manners as our prophet taught us.
Please dont take offence to what i say. But no one can know how it feels if you arent in the situation. My mother was the best wife, and mother. This is not her fault. All her life she suffered. Since day one my father has hurt her. Domestic violence is a big problem in our community and we need to step up and deal with it.
The reality is, its men who are beating women. Am i right? So stop making excuses and make changes. No one deserves to be abused. How dare anyone justify it? Who are we to punish someone? We need to be humble, how dare we think we can punish others....
Even if the woman is at fault, a man should fear Allah and know that Allah is the Judge and not him.