...I am not saying I am GOING to leave (yet), just that I am TEMPTED to.
I love Allah. I love our Prophet peace be upon him. I am just tired of the struggle. Life is a struggle either way you go, and this I am fully aware. But if you remember my loooong post a while ago talking about what brought me to Islam you know how much of a struggle it has been for me.
This weekend my masjid hosted a Bayyinah class for Friday evening then all day Saturday and Sunday. Due to finances and the fact I work on Sundays I was unable to attend the class. Late Friday night, one of the attendees IMs me and says "The Bayyinah shaykh has said not to let finances get in your way of learning, if someone is not attending because they can't afford it they can still come in for the rest of the weekend". Well since I didn't know about this until after the end of the first day of the class I was STILL unable to attend, and besides I work on Sunday so the only day I could attend would've been Saturday. And what's the point of taking one day of a three day class?
Well, during salat yesterday I was met by angry glares and some not so friendly accusational tones of: "Where were you? Why weren't you here? The class is free so why aren't you taking it?" I almost snapped. The straw just about broke the camel's back. I started resenting the fact that my "brothers" felt that my "excuses" were not "good enough" when NONE of them have the right to make me feel like that. I feel like the Ummah is a far harsher judge on me than Allah is!! At least HE knows what I'm struggling with!
Anyway - I find my life has taken on far more of a burden since I became Muslim than ever before. The peace I found in Islam when I first made my shahadah has slowly eroded. I find my salat has become nothing more than a habit, with very little actual prayer involved. I have no guidance - I've asked 2 of the shuyuk there at my masjid if they had time to talk to me and both said "yes" but they both vanish as soon after the sunnah as they can. I thought my first Ramadan would boost my faith and make it stronger like it does for others. But for me it didn't.
So anyway. I just needed to vent that and the few folks I know online (including on this site) seem to be the only ones in the Ummah who care to listen.
Asalaamu alaikum.
I love Allah. I love our Prophet peace be upon him. I am just tired of the struggle. Life is a struggle either way you go, and this I am fully aware. But if you remember my loooong post a while ago talking about what brought me to Islam you know how much of a struggle it has been for me.
This weekend my masjid hosted a Bayyinah class for Friday evening then all day Saturday and Sunday. Due to finances and the fact I work on Sundays I was unable to attend the class. Late Friday night, one of the attendees IMs me and says "The Bayyinah shaykh has said not to let finances get in your way of learning, if someone is not attending because they can't afford it they can still come in for the rest of the weekend". Well since I didn't know about this until after the end of the first day of the class I was STILL unable to attend, and besides I work on Sunday so the only day I could attend would've been Saturday. And what's the point of taking one day of a three day class?
Well, during salat yesterday I was met by angry glares and some not so friendly accusational tones of: "Where were you? Why weren't you here? The class is free so why aren't you taking it?" I almost snapped. The straw just about broke the camel's back. I started resenting the fact that my "brothers" felt that my "excuses" were not "good enough" when NONE of them have the right to make me feel like that. I feel like the Ummah is a far harsher judge on me than Allah is!! At least HE knows what I'm struggling with!
Anyway - I find my life has taken on far more of a burden since I became Muslim than ever before. The peace I found in Islam when I first made my shahadah has slowly eroded. I find my salat has become nothing more than a habit, with very little actual prayer involved. I have no guidance - I've asked 2 of the shuyuk there at my masjid if they had time to talk to me and both said "yes" but they both vanish as soon after the sunnah as they can. I thought my first Ramadan would boost my faith and make it stronger like it does for others. But for me it didn't.
So anyway. I just needed to vent that and the few folks I know online (including on this site) seem to be the only ones in the Ummah who care to listen.
Asalaamu alaikum.