i'm SORRY everybody

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

:shymuslima1::shymuslima1::salam2::shymuslima1::shymuslima1:
i hope my brothers and sisters are in the best of heath and imaan.

i'm wanted to convey my sincere apologies to all those who got annoyed coz i am one of those who used urdu here on TTI in one of threads which i now found blocked.:shymuslima1::shymuslima1::shymuslima1::shymuslima1:i'll try not to be so irritating and destrutive again.plzzz forgive me:shymuslima1::shymuslima1::shymuslima1::shymuslima1:​

:shymuslima1:I'M SORRY:shymuslima1:​

i also wanted to say i'm sorry to the rest of my urdu speaking brothers and sisters.coz one of the brothers got so annnoyed that he said the urdu speaking idiots.i admit being an idiot.i'll try not to be.i also admit causing truble for the mods and i'm sorry to them too.but brother plzz don't call all the urdu speakers idiots coz all are not like me:shymuslima1:.most of them hardly say a word without translating it.i hope you don't require names.and i'm really sorry.won't happen again.inshallah.:shymuslima1:

i hope everybody will forgive and forget.

with sincere apologies,:shymuslima1::shymuslima1::shymuslima1:
sis:shymuslima1::shymuslima1:​

 

[IbnAhmad]

Assalamu Alykum.

I think maybe I was being a little harsh and also I was miss understood a little. What I meant was even after being warned by Brother Mabsoot (Abu Abdillah) and then In the thread you are referring to reminded be 'Al - Kahsmiri'. 'Some' continued to use the Urdu and in fact have not stopped. Which is why I and I am sure others inc. Moderators see as in appropriate and *stupid* behaviour.

There is nothing to forgive Sister. InshaAllah you can also us your intelligence/initiative and advise you friends. May Allah SWT guide us all. Ameen.

Note: I was not referring to all Urdu speakers but to those who used Urdu in that particular thread after being warned.

No offence intended. Wassalaaam.

 

[al-fajr]

Assalamu'alaykum,

Its just a rule of basic etiquette, try visiting the other TTI language forums and try to make sense of what some threads are about, you will find it difficult to do that and if you wanted to participate in those threads you probably couldn't do it.

Same idea here, if urdu speakers fill english threads with urdu and then a non-urdu speaker wanted to participate, they wouldn't feel able to, which isn't fair at all since this is an english forum.

Take a note of the rule and stick with it from now, theres no need to be upset over it, its just about being considerate to other forumites.

You shouldn't call yourself an idiot because in my opinion that 'immature idiots' comment was uncalled for and rude.

 

[IbnAhmad]

You shouldn't call yourself an idiot because in my opinion that 'immature idiots' comment was uncalled for and rude.

That was me :lol:

 

[Appa BK]

:salam2: Sister.

I really dont think it was such an aweful thing you've done. Dont feel so bad.

Insha'Allah it wasnt such a problem. And the mods on TTI are always wonderfully accomodating!

Also I dont think calling people "idiots" is part of the character of a Muslim.

Allah knows best.

P.S Next to Arabic I think Urdu is the next beautiful language... ;-)

Take Care Sis.

Ma'aSalaama

 

[BinKhadija]

Asslam'u Alykum,

Yes, it won't and it shouldn't happen again by any of us. It is good that you realise, and are brave enough to correct yourself - unlike some people. So, may Allah reward you, sister.

And, yeah, we all need to remember:

This website is mainly in English, so thats the medium in which language should be used, other languages fit into the other parts of the website.

The Urdu section or other language sections will only be made when there are competent people to take care of it.

- Originally Posted by brother Mabsoot

 

[BinteShafi]

:salam2:

Am I allowed to say something ???


I have observed that urdu speaking brothers and sisters speak to each other in a way which is not within Islamic limits. My observation might be wrong....BUT ...why would you like to have useless talk with other non-mehram brothers or sisters in a blunt style. WHY???

Brothers need to learn how to interact sisters...and sisters need NOT to allow brothers to speak to them beyond certain limits. Teach them that you are respectable, dignified Muslim girl.....you have taqwa and piety...and they need to fear Allah before being blunt with you.

I assume my words would have offended many....but I am happy that I said this Alhamdolillah (I have been observing this since last 2 months).

 

[ahmed_indian]

:salam2:

I have observed that urdu speaking brothers and sisters speak to each other in a way which is not within Islamic limits. My observation might be wrong....BUT ...why would you like to have useless talk with other non-mehram brothers or sisters in a blunt style. WHY???

Brothers need to learn how to interact sisters...and sisters need NOT to allow brothers to speak to them beyond certain limits. Teach them that you are respectable, dignified Muslim girl.....you have taqwa and piety...and they need to fear Allah before being blunt with you.

,

i agree. its true. using words like *brother, you are so cute* or *sister, you are so funny* are not appropriate. though we are brothers and sisters in Islam, we are not *real* ones. we are still non-mahram to each other.

time to mend our ways (including me).

 

[mahussain3]

:shymuslima1::shymuslima1::salam2::shymuslima1::shymuslima1:

.coz one of the brothers got so annnoyed that he said the urdu speaking idiots.​

That statement really hurt me,what ever be the situation he should not say IDIOT to anyone,who gave him the authority to be so harsh to you ???....everone here is speaking about the urdu in this thread but did any1 noticed what he said to the sister,how he can say URDU SPEAKING IDIOTS to us.. :astag::astag:
sister you need not to apologize for this at all,using urdu is not a crime,if it is not the rule of this website than that guy should have told you in a proper way,but not like this.

 

[Mahzala]

That statement really hurt me,what ever be the situation he should not say IDIOT to anyone,who gave him the authority to be so harsh to you ???...Where are the moderators now ....everone here is speaking about the urdu in this thread but did any1 noticed what he said to the sister,how he can say URDU SPEAKING IDIOTS to us.. I would say SAME TO YOU ... :astag::astag:

Funny how youre giong on about someone calling another by such names, and then you say you would say the same. What then makes you different? Let's not be hot-headed here. Apologies have been done with, we all make mistakes, with words and actions. And Allah forgive us all.

 

[BinKhadija]

That statement really hurt me,what ever be the situation he should not say IDIOT to anyone,who gave him the authority to be so harsh to you ???...Where are the moderators now ....everone here is speaking about the urdu in this thread but did any1 noticed what he said to the sister,how he can say URDU SPEAKING IDIOTS to us.. :astag::astag:

Asslam'u Alykum,

Brother, I think that has already been done. In the second post, it's mentioned he was reminded by moderators and by our ameer abbas. No? (First two lines of 2nd post)

And, its obvious he won't mean to say all Urdu speakers.

Let's calm down, brother. We shouldn't let go the oppurtunity of forgiving each other for the sake of Allah.

Wa'salaam

 

[mahussain3]

Asslam'u Alykum,

Brother, I think that has already been done. In the second post, it's mentioned he was reminded by moderators and by our ameer abbas. No? (First two lines of 2nd post)

And, its obvious he won't mean to say all Urdu speakers.

Let's calm down, brother.

Wa'salaam

ah!!!! ok dear bro,I'll..Jazak-Allahu khairan for your cocern.
take care,do remember me in your du'as...
Ma'as salamah

 

[mahussain3]

Funny how youre giong on about someone calling another by such names, and then you say you would say the same. What then makes you different? Let's not be hot-headed here. Apologies have been done with, we all make mistakes, with words and actions. And Allah forgive us all.

yup! bro binkhadija told me and i saw that post later,thnx for your advice and ameen to your du'as.

 

[Al-Kashmiri]

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[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Assalamu Alykum.

I think maybe I was being a little harsh and also I was miss understood a little. What I meant was even after being warned by Brother Mabsoot (Abu Abdillah) and then In the thread you are referring to reminded be 'Al - Kahsmiri'. 'Some' continued to use the Urdu and in fact have not stopped. Which is why I and I am sure others inc. Moderators see as in appropriate and *stupid* behaviour.

There is nothing to forgive Sister. InshaAllah you can also us your intelligence/initiative and advise you friends. May Allah SWT guide us all. Ameen.

Note: I was not referring to all Urdu speakers but to those who used Urdu in that particular thread after being warned.

No offence intended. Wassalaaam.

jazakallah khaira for your reply brother.i'm happy to see that you got no hot feeling now.may be i did got you wrong.sorry about that.i'll try to be less stupid inshallah.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Assalamu'alaykum,

Its just a rule of basic etiquette, try visiting the other TTI language forums and try to make sense of what some threads are about, you will find it difficult to do that and if you wanted to participate in those threads you probably couldn't do it.

Same idea here, if urdu speakers fill english threads with urdu and then a non-urdu speaker wanted to participate, they wouldn't feel able to, which isn't fair at all since this is an english forum.

Take a note of the rule and stick with it from now, theres no need to be upset over it, its just about being considerate to other forumites.

You shouldn't call yourself an idiot because in my opinion that 'immature idiots' comment was uncalled for and rude.

yesh sister i got that very cleary now.that's why i said i'm sorry............i mean for my untentional rudenessi'll try to go by the book to the best of my ability.inshallahi didn't call myself an idiot just like that sis.i just said if according to brother what i did what was idiotic then he must have said it for a reason.so..............

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

:salam2: Sister.

I really dont think it was such an aweful thing you've done. Dont feel so bad.

Insha'Allah it wasnt such a problem. And the mods on TTI are always wonderfully accomodating!

Also I dont think calling people "idiots" is part of the character of a Muslim.

Allah knows best.

P.S Next to Arabic I think Urdu is the next beautiful language... ;-)

Take Care Sis.

Ma'aSalaama

:salam2:

jazakallah khaira for your very sweet reply sis.it's really nice of you.yes urdu is a nice language but i can see that it's rude to use it somwhere,where everbody cannot understand it.they are right about thinking it's stupid.

you take care too my sis,

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Asslam'u Alykum,

Yes, it won't and it shouldn't happen again by any of us. It is good that you realise, and are brave enough to correct yourself - unlike some people. So, may Allah reward you, sister.

And, yeah, we all need to remember:

jazakallah khaira for you kind reply akhi.i'll be good next time............and good remindersomething to look forward to

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

:salam2:

Am I allowed to say something ???


I have observed that urdu speaking brothers and sisters speak to each other in a way which is not within Islamic limits. My observation might be wrong....BUT ...why would you like to have useless talk with other non-mehram brothers or sisters in a blunt style. WHY???

Brothers need to learn how to interact sisters...and sisters need NOT to allow brothers to speak to them beyond certain limits. Teach them that you are respectable, dignified Muslim girl.....you have taqwa and piety...and they need to fear Allah before being blunt with you.

I assume my words would have offended many....but I am happy that I said this Alhamdolillah (I have been observing this since last 2 months).

OH my sister.you can say whatever you like.i'm all ears to you.
no sis you're right and i was wrong.i'll keep your advice and counsel in my mind.jazakallah khaira sis your reply means a lot to me
no,your words didn't offend me they make sense.like i said sis you are at the liberty to say whatever is right,to me.you *SHOULD* be happy to have said what's right
coz i don't see how will i shine unless i'm polished

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

,

i agree. its true. using words like *brother, you are so cute* or *sister, you are so funny* are not appropriate. though we are brothers and sisters in Islam, we are not *real* ones. we are still non-mahram to each other.

time to mend our ways (including me).

jazakallah khaira i'm in the process of mending my wayz inshallah.