My life: A long story cut short.

Peace92

Revert to Islam
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I hope everything goes well. You're always painting a smile across our face and we're here for you to do just that.

You're a cool, funny, bubbly person and we all love you here. Most of us have had a past, but its who we are NOW and in the future that really matters.

Take care sister,

I'm here for you, just as you were for me.

:wasalam:
 

fatima1994

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behna i came here online after some time and saw ur post :( Subhanallah! :(
Keep faith in Allah and hope for the best. They are after all and no matter what ur parents! Make dua for them that Allah give them hadayah. Inshalllah ur in my dua.


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rightpath_357

Junior Member
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I hope all my brothers and sisters are well.

I need to ask all of you to forgive me please. If there is anything i have done to you, please forgive your sister. :tti_sister:

WAllah, i am not joking/lying. My life has reached the point where i dont see why i should live anymore. You may think "Shes only 17 and she thinks its the end of the world" But WAllah i really cant handle anything. Ive totally hit rock bottom. Everything in my life is wrong. im a real waste of space, my family tell me too. They hate me. They always tell me how im the worst thing that ever happened to them. I have so much love to give to them, i really do. My parents are the only reason that m here in this world. But they dislike me and everything about me. I have nothing to look forward to. I come back from school and thats it. The shouting, swearing all starts again. :(

Im a really bad person, and done much wrong in my life. I always try and move on and stop myself from looking back. But somehow my "past" just keeps on appearing in front of me. Im trying to be a better person and i just cant seem to reach that goal. :(

Please forgive me if i have ever wronged you.

Sorry for the moaning :girl3:

I dont want your sympathy, i just need your duas pls. It means EVERYTHING to me at this moment in time :(

I love you all filLah

:wasalam:

Sis- I'm not giving you sympathy- I'm giving you empathy. There are times when this happens. But sis- first- there's someone who loves you always- the most powerful One of all, Who wants the best for you- Allah. So what if you did bad? Pray to Allah to forgive you. I think ur a very kind and loving sis. Ur parents might say that- but they really love you. Concentrate on what matters to you most. I know what it fels like to be trapped sometimes. In your room- studying your hardest- then getting called down and sworn at because of something that happened a while ago- and dosent matter anymore becuz uve handled it well- yet they keep tramping on it. Sis- we're all here 4 u! Your EVEN BIGGER LOVING FAMILY!!!!I'll du'aa a lot 4 u sis!!!!!!:hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts::hearts: I call being ur little sister!:lol:
LOTS OF LOVE AND CARE!!!!!!!!:SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252::SMILY252:
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Muslim_Gurl

Thank You Allah!
CHEER UP!!!

CHEER UP SISTER!!!

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WE LOVE YOUU!!!

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SO SMILE!!!

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I LOVE YOU FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH!!!
 

Muslim_Gurl

Thank You Allah!
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So SMILE my dear sister. Don't let yourself down. Allah is always there for you, no need to worry. He knows everything thats happening and WHY its happening. There is a reason for all this you know. I mean, why would Allah want you to face this problem when He is so loving and so caring?? There's obviously a reason right. And don't worry sister...it will ALL be done pretty soon InshaAllah. Time goes by very quicky, before you know it, everything will be A-okay!! <3

SO SMILEE FOR ME NOW :D Like this >>>:D Go on...SMILE!! :D:D:D

Love youuuuu :hearts:
 

Muslim_Gurl

Thank You Allah!
NOW TIME FOR SOME BIG HUGS AND KISSES!!!

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I LOVE YOUUU!!!!
 

Summer03

3doTs2sQuares
Asalamu alaikum!

My dear sister, Allah swt is testing You this very moment. What you are
going through is a tough exam from Him swt. Do you want to give yourself a bad score? Do you want Allah to see His dear servant in a failing mood? You have to be strong because you have to know sister that Allah swt sometimes puts His servant in a situation as such so the servant returns to Him. This is a calling for you to return truly to Allah. This advice goes to me and you and everyone else going through hardships.

I love you for ALLAH's sake

Salam!
 

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
As-salaamu'alaykum wr wb my dearest brothers and sisters!

It's taken me forever to reply to this message. Sorry about that.

Your advise/kind words. They really do mean a lot. But i sill ask of you to make dua for me and the relationship i have with my parents. I'm really trying to be a better daughter and make them happy in any circumstance. I only have a few months left with them then I'll be married. I want to make the most of it and i NEED your special duas brothers and sisters.

Urm just to add.. My grandma passed away today pls make dua for her maghfirah and that she enters Jannatul firdos. Aameen.

Tc all
Wassalaam
 

rightpath_357

Junior Member
As-salaamu'alaykum wr wb my dearest brothers and sisters!

It's taken me forever to reply to this message. Sorry about that.

Your advise/kind words. They really do mean a lot. But i sill ask of you to make dua for me and the relationship i have with my parents. I'm really trying to be a better daughter and make them happy in any circumstance. I only have a few months left with them then I'll be married. I want to make the most of it and i NEED your special duas brothers and sisters.

Urm just to add.. My grandma passed away today pls make dua for her maghfirah and that she enters Jannatul firdos. Aameen.

Tc all
Wassalaam

Okay sis. :SMILY252:

Lots of love and luck from us!!!!! :hearts:
 

Almaas

Junior Member
As-salaamu'alaykum wr wb my dearest brothers and sisters!

Urm just to add.. My grandma passed away today pls make dua for her maghfirah and that she enters Jannatul firdos. Aameen.

Walaykumasalaam,

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un, so sorry to hear that :(

May Allah SWT grant her Jannat and give your family patience & strength. Ameen.
 

Frank_H_Smith

New Revert 2010
As Salamu 'Alaykum,

When a person's life seems hopeless or meaningless, it is because the stress or guilt has become greater than the coping ability of the person. You need to learn more coping skills.

I copied and pasted the entire page from : http://quranicverse99.tripod.com/islamicways/id4.html

I felt that you needed to read it.

The Mercy of Allah in Regard to Forgiveness


"O son of Adam, as long as you call upon Me and put your hope in Me, I have forgiven you for what you have done and I do not mind. O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach the clouds of the sky and then you would seek My forgiveness, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, if you were to come to Me with sins that are close to filling the earth and then you would meet Me without ascribing any partners with Me, I would certainly bring to you forgiveness close to filling it."

In this Hadithi Qudsi, Allah gives hope to mankind more than any other narration. It displays the quality and attribute of Allahs mercy. Indeed, He is ar-Rahman, the Most Compassionate, and ar-Raheem, the Most Merciful. In this Hadithi Qudsi, Allah tells man of the greatness of His forgiveness and mercy so that no one would despair due to the amount of sins he may have committed. This is supported by the following verse of the Holy Quran:

Say: O My servants who have transgressed against their own souls, despair not of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surah az-Zumar 39:53)


This hadith teaches us the importance of realizing Allahs mercy, having faith and hope in Him especially when making dua, calling to Allah alone for forgiveness, and the importance of repentance in the life and faith of a believer.

Allah catches the attention of mankind by calling out, O son of Adam! This is a call to every human being. Why didnt Allah say, O mankind or O People? The significance of this specific call is because it was the first human being, Adam (alaiyhis-salam) who committed the first sin. Adam was an example to all humans of the consequences of sin and how to turn to Allah for forgiveness of ones sins. This gives hope that even after committing a violation, ones sins can be forgiven if one repents to Allah sincerely the same way that the father of mankind sinned, repented, and was forgiven by Allah.

Allah calls out to His servants, a call of forgiveness, mercy, and compassion. For He knows that man was created weak and is prone to fall into sin. After calling out to mankind, Allah informs them that as long as they call on Him and put their hope in Him, He will forgive them and not mind. This statement alone can convince one to have hope and never to despair. When one calls out to Allah or makes dua, he is displaying his need and dependence of Allah. He is demonstrating his weakness to the fact that he has no power to do anything for himself. It is the essence of submission and servitude. It is also a recognition of Allahs attributes of kindness, generosity, forgiving and merciful nature, and His unlimited power and knowledge. Humans are never in a situation where they are not in need of Allah. A believer always turns to Allah to ask for guidance as well as to seek forgiveness of sins and shortcomings.

Allahs says, Call on me and I will respond to you. One of the most important conditions of making dua is that one must completely trust that Allah will respond. One must also supplicate with sincerity, hope, and seriousness. One must not have any doubt at all on whether Allah will respond to ones call or if He accepts the dua. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said, Supplicate Allah while you are certain of a response. And know that Allah does not respond to a supplication from a heart that is heedless and inattentive. He also forbade that one say, Oh Allah, forgive me if You will. But he said, Instead, you should ask with will and conviction for there is nothing so great to Allah that He cannot grant it.

When supplicating, one should truly seek Allahs aid and His forgiveness and demonstrate his need for Allah and submit to Him with fear and hope in receiving the desired response. Allah advises in Surat al-Araaf 7:56:

And invoke Him in fear and aspiration (of hope). Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to those who do good.

Another important condition of supplication is that one must not become hasty and impatient and stop supplicating because he did not receive a response sooner or at all. The Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said, You are responded to as long as you do not become hasty and say, I supplicated and it is not being or was not responded to.

And the final condition of ones dua being responded to is that one must make sure he is living off of halal and permissible means.

Allah says, Put your hope in Me. Man was not created sinful, but he was created weak. He is prone to fall into the temptations of sin and the whispers of Satan and when he does, he should always remember to turn to Allah, call upon Him, and ask for forgiveness with hope in His mercy. Allah stated in a Hadithi Qudsi, I am with My servant as He expects of Me. The meaning of this is that Allah treats His servants the way he expects Him to. If one has hope in Allah and trusts Him, Allah will act accordingly to that servants beliefs and faith. And if he does not have faith and is in despair of his Lords mercy, Allah will act accordingly. Not having hope in Allah and despairing of His mercy is a great sin and an act of kufr. Allah quotes Prophet Yaqoob (alaiyhis-salam) in the Quran:

Indeed, no one despairs of relief from Allah except the disbelieving people. (Surah Yusuf 12:87)

One must be hopeful of Allahs mercy and forgiveness and fearful of His punishment. It is this fear that should lead one to seek Allahs forgiveness with hope. Allah says:

Know that Allah is severe in punishment and that Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. (Surat al-Maaidah 5:98)

In the above verse, Allah gives us reason to fear because His punishment is justly severe, as well as good reason to have hope, since He is the Most Forgiving and Merciful. There should be a balance between fear and hope and not too much or too less of one or the other. If there is too much fear, then a person may negate Allahs quality of mercy and ascribe to Him unkindness (Allah forbid!).
There was a sect called Khawaarij, who worshipped Allah only in fear and held the belief that anyone who commits major sins was a disbeliever and would be thrown into the Hellfire forever. This is a gross extremism and straying from the correct path.

Yet, another sect, which emerged within the first century of Islam, had no fear and believed that sins did not affect ones faith and that as long as one believed and testified in Islam, he would enter Paradise regardless of his actions. Both of these extremes lead to a dangerous consequence.

To understand the balance of fear and hope of Allah, let us look at the very first chapter of the Quran, Surat al-Fatiha. The first verse says, All praise be to Allah, Lord of all the worlds. In this verse, love for Allah is expressed. We acknowledge that Allah is our Lord and the Lord of all the worlds. He is the Creator of all things; He sustains and nourishes everything; He gives life and death; anything good that we have is from Him; and everything is dependant on him and nothing can happen unless Allah wills it to happen.
In the second verse we express our hope in Him by stating, ar-Rahma-nir-Raheem. The meaning of which is: The Beneficent, the Merciful. When we mention these two names of Allah, then we have hope, since He is the One, who is full of mercy and we hope He will forgive out mistakes and shortcomings. We should never lose hope because there is no reason to.

And in the third ayah of Surat al-Fatiha, fear of Allah is expressed when we recite, Master (King) of the Day of Judgement. When we recite this verse, we remind ourselves of the Day that we will be standing in front of our Lord and be questioned for our deeds, a Most Awful Day. It will be a day in which not even the smallest action will be hidden. This reminder of the Day of Judgement should bring fear to our hearts.

Fear and hope, both should be equally proportioned in our hearts, in our worship, and in our dua to Allah. Allah says:

Call out to Him with fear and hope. (Surat al-Araaf 7:56)
They forsake their beds to call their Lord in fear and hope. (Surat as-Sajdah 32:16)

The Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said, The like of these two qualities do not unite in the heart of a servant except that Allah gives him what he hopes for and protects him from what he feared.

In the Hadithi Qudsi that is being discussed in this paper, Allah says, O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach the clouds of the sky and you would then seek My forgiveness, I would forgive you. Here, we will discuss the importance of repentance and seeking forgiveness and its virtues.

First of all, we should never lose hope or stop asking for Allahs forgiveness. Its importance is shown to us in the following hadith of the Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam): O people! Turn to Allah in repentance and seek His forgiveness, for surely I make repentance a hundred times every day. Repentance is such a great act of worship that doing it can totally erase ones sins altogether, as the Noble Prophet (sallallahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said, One who repents from sins is like one without sin.

When a person sins and then sincerely turns to Allah for forgiveness, one will find Allah ready to accept his repentance and to forgive him, as this verse indicates:

And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself, but then seeks forgiveness from Allah, he will find Allah forgiving and merciful. (Surat an-Nisaa 4:110)

Everyone commits sin and does wrong, but Allah is always willing to forgive and He always gives them a chance to repent and seek His forgiveness. A believer should never forget the fact that Allah is so forgiving. If Allah had willed, He could have held everyone accountable for his or her sins, but He has decreed that He shall allow His servants to seek His forgiveness and that He shall in fact forgive who and what He wills. In fact, Allah commands that His servants seek His forgiveness:

And seek Allahs forgiveness. Certainly, Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
(Surat al-Muzzammil 73:20)

Repentance is an act, which purifies the soul and brings the servant closer to His Lord. It puts the heart at rest from guilt. It protects one from falling prey to his desires and lusts and increases his faith.

Allah then says in the Hadithi Qudsi that is being discussed, O son of Adam, if you were to come to Me with sins close to filling the earth and then you would meet Me without ascribing any partners with Me, I would certainly bring you forgiveness close to filling it. Look at how great Allahs mercy, compassion, and love is! The least Allah asks for is that one not ascribe any partners and gods with Him, for, He is alone in His Sovereignty. And after that if one commits sins and seeks sincere forgiveness, Allah will forgive him and shower His mercy upon him.

However, one is not forgiven if he seeks repentance from Allah at the time of death when he sees the angels or when the sun rises from the west at the approaching of the Day of Judgement. This is confirmed by the following verse:

And of no effect is the repentance of those who continue to do evil deeds until death faces one of them and he says, Now I repent, nor of those who dies while they are disbelievers. For them, We have prepared a painful torment. (Surat an-Nisaa 4:18)

Allah also does not forgive one who commits shirk, which is the association of partners with Allah. Forgiveness will only come to those who die while adhering to tawheed and avoiding any form of shirk.

Verily, Allah does not forgive that partners should be set up with Him, but He forgives whatever is less than that for whomever He wills. And whoever sets up partners with Allah has indeed invented a tremendous sin. (Surat an-Nisaa 4:48)

Verily, Allah forgives not the setting up of partners with Him, but He forgives whom He pleases whatever is less than that. And whoever sets up partners with Allah has indeed strayed far away. (Surat an-Nisaa 4:116)

We must ask ourselves this question: Would we be willing to forgive anyone who hurts us and disobeys us constantly as easily as Allah is Able to forgive? Most probably, the answer would be no. But our Creator is the Most Kind and He is the Most Perfect.

Lo! Allah is a Lord of Kindness to mankind, but most of mankind give not thanks. (Surat al-Baqarah 2:143)


In this Hadithi Qudsi, mankind is encouraged to seek Allahs forgiveness and repent, but there are five conditions of repentance, which must be met for ones repentance to be accepted. The first and most important is that the act of repentance be sincerely for Allah alone. Secondly, the person must feel remorse and guilt over his actions so much so that he wished he had never done it in the first place. The third condition is that the person must immediately cease performing the wrong and sinful act. Fourthly, the repentant person must have a firm intention to never commit the sin again. And lastly, the person must repent before it is too late, meaning before death approaches.

Allah, Blessed and Exalted, finishes the Hadithi Qudsi with the following words, O son of Adam! If you were to come to Me with sins that are close to filling the earth and you would then meet Me without ascribing any partners to Me, I would certainly bring to you forgiveness close to filling it. Again, the mercy of Allah is clearly demonstrated by His Divine Words. However, there is a condition. One must not associate any partners with Allah, which is shirk. And Allah does not forgive shirk and if one dies without believing in Allah alone as ones Creator, then he will be doomed to the Hellfire for all of eternity. So, Allah emphasizes the importance of calling on Him alone. He has no and needs no partners, associates, wives, children, etc. There is no god, but Allah. None forgives sins except Him, so one seeking forgiveness should seek it only from Allah.

Will they not repent to Allah and ask His forgiveness? For Allah is the Forgiving, the Merciful. (Surat al-Maaidah 5:74)
And who can forgive sins except Allah? (Surah Ali Imran 3:135)

Allah praises the one who truly believes, has hope, and seeks the forgiveness of his Creator, as did his father, Adam:

Say: Shall I not inform you of things far better than those (things of this world)? For the pious, there are gardens with their Lord, wherein rivers flow. Therein (is their) eternal home and pure wives. And Allah will be pleased with them. And Allah is Seer of the slaves. Those who say, Our Lord! We have indeed believed, so forgive us our sins and save us from the punishment of the Fire. They are those who are patient, those who are true and obedient with sincere devotion in worship to Allah. Those who spend (in charity) and those who pray and beg for Allahs forgiveness in the last hours of the night. (Surah Ali Imran 3:15-17)

Allahs forgiveness and mercy is far greater and more vast than the sins of the creation. One must always have trust and hope in Allah in both good times and bad times and especially when seeking Allahs forgiveness. And the believer who calls out to his Lord for forgiveness demonstrates his true weakness and that he is totally dependent on the Creator. When one confesses his sins to Allah and sincerely repents with hope in Allahs mercy, the heart should come to peace and the soul should feel rest. When a person has hope, he has no reason to despair because it only leads to destruction. Allah gives hope to all, especially those who despair that there is no reason to despair because Allah is the Most Merciful of all those who show mercy. Allah praises those who repent and turn to Him:

And those who, when they commit a lewd act or wrong themselves with evil, remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their sinsand who forgives sins except Allah? And they do not persist in what (wrong) they were doing while they knew it. For such, the reward is forgiveness from their Lord and Gardens with rivers flowing through, wherein they shall abide forever. How excellent is the reward of the doers (of good)! (Surah Ali Imran 3:135-136)

This is from me:

Yesterday is gone. It is like a canceled check. It has no value for it has been spent. Tomorrow may not come. It is like a promissory note. It may provide value. However, until it comes, it has no value. Today is here. It is the only time of value we as humans have. Satan loves to whisper in the ear about the wrong we did yesterday or the joy or sorrow that tomorrow may bring. Satan is a liar, a deceiver, evil. He wants to distract you from the sun on your face, the taste of cool water, the joy that Allah has for you now. None of us can change the past. We can only make amends. None of us know what tomorrow may bring. We can only trust Allah. Today is precious. We can worship Allah today. We can help others today. Today is a blessing to study about Allah, serve Allah, fulfill Allah's commands. Live in the here and now. Let Yesterday in the past. Trust tomorrow to Allah. Read this short story.
 

Latifabonu

Alhamdulillah
May Allah help u my dear sis U r in my dua's always dear InshaAllah everything will be May Allah give u sabr dear Amin!Jst keep praying and don't forget to smile!!!!:SMILY259::SMILY259::SMILY259:
 

islam_best

Junior Member
Ur not bad!!!

Assalaamalaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaathu,

Who does not do wrong in this world.Onlly when we suffer we realize the true meaning of life.Dear sister, we all have to face sufferings. The difference is just that it takes different forms for different people...Sister, presently even i am suffering, hardships never seem to end.but we have to go on.We cant stop and say i dont want to live!!!! During our suffering we MUST remember Allah Azwajal.We must and Inshallah we will truly.May Allah grant us all sabr,His Rememberance, fear and love throughout our lives till death and ease our suffering for us .Ameen Ya Mujeeb.AMeen Ya Rahmaan.Ameen.

Wassalaamalaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaathu.
 

Talat

Junior Member
Dear sister (daughter) as a mother of two teenage boys, I know that parents can sometimes be hard on their children and that is for their own good and my advice to you is, you should either talk directly to your parents or ask an older family member(e.g granparents) for help to resolve your issues with your parents. Life has a purpose for all of us and only Allah knows why we are being tested. Look at these photos and think of what other people go through life and think, may be our troubleds are not that unbearable. Shouldn’t we always be thankful to Allah?
I am sure that your parents love you very very much well we all love you here.
 

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Frank_H_Smith

New Revert 2010
As Salamu 'Alaykum,

Sister Muslimah,

Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. I apologize if my post seemed irrelevant; foolishly, when I read the initial post you wrote, I was very concerned about your welfare and skipped to replying in an attempt to provide you with some old man perspective. Obviously, you are moving psychologically, physically, and emotionally to a better place in your life.

As a last piece of advice from someone who has seen much tragedy and has done wrong in an attempt to do right, whenever, you begin to "hear", "feel", or "see" sadness and pain that you either endured or caused say these words:

"A'uzu Billahi Minash shaitanir Rajim."

For as a Muslim you know that it is Shaitan who is whispering to you.

Call on Allah,

يا الله, وأنا ألتمس منكم العون وأطلب منكم المعذرة

Allahiya inna nasta'inuka wa nastagh firuka

I apologize if my transliteration is incorrect. I am trying to say " O Allah, I seek your help, and ask your forgiveness."

(The arabic was done with a computer translator and the transliteration was my doing; so, the closes I can find is in Salat-Ul-Witr "Alahumnma inna nasta'inuka wa nastagh firuka)

Again I congratulate you and ask humbly of Allah to Bless your Marriage as He has mine.
 

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
As Salamu 'Alaykum,

Sister Muslimah,

Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. I apologize if my post seemed irrelevant; foolishly, when I read the initial post you wrote, I was very concerned about your welfare and skipped to replying in an attempt to provide you with some old man perspective. Obviously, you are moving psychologically, physically, and emotionally to a better place in your life.

As a last piece of advice from someone who has seen much tragedy and has done wrong in an attempt to do right, whenever, you begin to "hear", "feel", or "see" sadness and pain that you either endured or caused say these words:

"A'uzu Billahi Minash shaitanir Rajim."

For as a Muslim you know that it is Shaitan who is whispering to you.

Call on Allah,

يا الله, وأنا ألتمس منكم العون وأطلب منكم المعذرة

Allahiya inna nasta'inuka wa nastagh firuka

I apologize if my transliteration is incorrect. I am trying to say " O Allah, I seek your help, and ask your forgiveness."

(The arabic was done with a computer translator and the transliteration was my doing; so, the closes I can find is in Salat-Ul-Witr "Alahumnma inna nasta'inuka wa nastagh firuka)

Again I congratulate you and ask humbly of Allah to Bless your Marriage as He has mine.
Wa'alaykum salaam

JazakAllah khair brother Frank_H_Smith.

It wasn't irrelevant AlhumdulilLah, :)

jazakAllah khair once again for everything.

Aameen to your dua.

Wassalam
 
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