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I hope all sisters and brothers are in the best of heath.... I dont really come here on TTI anymore much but come as soon as i get some free time... and when i came on here today i dont know it just doesnt feel like the TTI it used to be
it was such a friendly place and felt like home but now i just dont feel like that
and i saw a thread about mods banning some member... Well anyways whatever the reasons were members are leaving TTI too
i know one sister fatima1994 where is she? she used to pm me and vm or on msn but now she left too ? i saw her profile it says gone? where is everybody?
Assalaamu alaykum,
There is a need to accept the fact that we all live with flaws, more or less. We have to accept our community as in that way. just as in our family we have differences same is the case with other social gathering.expect less from others, social relations thrives the best without expectations. we remember that the world do not revolve around anyone it’s big and everyone have their own life within.
Allaah blessed our prophet Muhammad (salAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) with all good qualities. Allaah says in quran for him (salAllaahu alayhi wasallam), “verily! You are upon the exalted character”. The best generations have also passed. Now We are remaining in present times who make mistakes, perhaps better is avoiding others and let them hide their face.keeping in mind that The best way to win an argument is by avoiding it.
members have tried to make this site successful venture and Allaah helped them and increased their morale. Further, yes no one has thought of bad outcomes, but unknowingly things go wrong. this is a part of humans, considering others superhuman or its simultude is much, just as we don’t consider that for ourselves too.
The favour we can do here is by bringing good material. Further We keep others in our silent dua. Give sincere compliments and admonition whenever needed in a way islaam teaches.
the members here spare out their daily time, adjust their routines. Just members are on the mission of dawah and want others to learn. I have seen so many and myself too who got better understanding of Islaam from this site.and have changed themselves, made them mature, taking matters seriously. This is an influence in a unique way in their life And this success can’t be ruled out.
One of the thing we all forget is when we are posing negs and doubt it implies that we have lost confidence from others. and in return others think us as problematic.On the contrary, people like to live and surround themselves with those who can decrease their burden or problems and not with who comes with their own problems.
People do honorary work here. In this world of time no one has time to do such a thing… Read, follow, give feedback etc. Its time consuming and tedious. Instead inshaAllaah we encourage the members here to fit and meet site standards so that there is no need or less need to counter the challenging situations.
Respected sister, I am not a neg or a liner picker.I hate from heart to have flattered talks, so I have written what I believe and think living on site.
InshaAllaah the things become better and soon there will be EID in couple of months, inshaAllaah.
jazaakAllaahu khayr,
Waalaykum salaam wa rahmatullah.