i'm SORRY everybody

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

That statement really hurt me,what ever be the situation he should not say IDIOT to anyone,who gave him the authority to be so harsh to you ???....everone here is speaking about the urdu in this thread but did any1 noticed what he said to the sister,how he can say URDU SPEAKING IDIOTS to us.. :astag::astag:
sister you need not to apologize for this at all,using urdu is not a crime,if it is not the rule of this website than that guy should have told you in a proper way,but not like this.

:salam2:

that is exactly why i oplogised to all urdu speaking brothers and sisters.it wouldn't have happened had we been careful.i'm sorry,i feel like those foolish ppl who call themselves muslims and blow themselves up.giving all the muslims the name of TERRORIST.am i any different from themas i did kinda same thing.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

As-salaamu `alaykum warahmatullaahi wabarakaatuh

What was done was needed. I find it strange that a simple issue required so many reminders, warnings and closed threads. Abu Baseer once closed four in a row, due to the combination of constantly using Urdu and undesirable, causal mingling between genders. Mabsoot closed one before that, reiterating the same points (Urdu and mingling) writing in bold in the last post to use English. Alhamdulillaah, at least it was clear as to why I closed the thread in question, no explanation was needed.

I don't think I'm alone in finding this issue puzzling. It was a simple request from the mods given time after time, which was completely ignored. What's worse is that those who caused threads to be closed, were more than aware of this, yet they persisted to continue. I can recall seeing in at least two threads, that straight after I would remind brothers and sisters not to use Urdu, the very next replies were in Urdu?! The issue is not a joke, when we ask of something pertaining the site, it is not a joke, it is advise or a reminder; we don't delete posts for fun, or say stuff for the sake of it. Don't take me wrong, we all know change takes time and don't see a problem in reminding a lot, but this was such a simple issue.

After issuing my last reminder, it took less than 24 hours (bare in mind I posted at hours where anyone not living in the Americas were probably asleep) before four posts cropped up in Urdu! The initial creator of the thread is an American revert who does not understand Urdu. What sense does it make to hijack someone's thread by conversing in a language which the initial poster doesn't understand?

The reasons as to why using Urdu in an English language forum is such a problem are obvious and have already been mentioned. We do hope to host Urdu forums in the future. But please bare in mind, we are going through changes and so Mabsoot is especially busy. We rather prioritise what is important and give da`wah than having to nag people with a simple instruction.

:salam2:
jazakallah khiara for your reply brother.i'm sorry to have messed up your time.i read your post and inshallah would do as told.i will try not to have you nag us.......me atleast for simple instructions.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

btw it feels good to be in everybody's good books

 

[mahussain3]

:salam2:

that is exactly why i oplogised to all urdu speaking brothers and sisters.it wouldn't have happened had we been careful.i'm sorry,i feel like those foolish ppl who call themselves muslims and blow themselves up.giving all the muslims the name of TERRORIST.am i any different from themas i did kinda same thing.

O Hello my dear sister,
It wasn't a big crime,why are you speaking like this?don't take it so much to the hurt,just take it easy,it wasn't your mistake,u used urdu,it wasn't a crime was just against the rules of TTI,but now you have apologized,so just leave this topic behind and look ahead.Don't bother about the past, everybody commits mistake,this is a part and parcel of life.PLEASE I REQUEST YOU TO FORGET THIS TOPIC AND CONCENTRATE ON THE OTHER IMPORTANT THINGS IN YOUR LIFE.

take care,
Keep Smiling always.

 

[Al-Kashmiri]

As-salaamu `alaykum

What's done is done. Alhamdulillaah, let's move on shall we? It's not a big issue, it's rather petty in fact...

Was-salaam

 

[mahussain3]

As-salaamu `alaykum

What's done is done. Alhamdulillaah, let's move on shall we?

Thats what I'm asking the sister to do.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

O Hello my dear sister,
It wasn't a big crime,why are you speaking like this?don't take it so much to the hurt,just take it easy,it wasn't your mistake,u used urdu,it wasn't a crime was just against the rules of TTI,but now you have apologized,so just leave this topic behind and look ahead.Don't bother about the past, everybody commits mistake,this is a part and parcel of life.PLEASE I REQUEST YOU TO FORGET THIS TOPIC AND CONCENTRATE ON THE OTHER IMPORTANT THINGS IN YOUR LIFE.

take care,
Keep Smiling always.

As-salaamu `alaykum

What's done is done. Alhamdulillaah, let's move on shall we? It's not a big issue,
Was-salaam

oooooeeeeeeeee i got told off okay now i stopped it.was just feeking really bad.that all.

 

[rightpath_357]

oh lol sis!!!!! Thats okay!!!!!! lol- i can understand urdu, but i don't speak a lot, so i don't type anything lol!!!!! :lol:

*Hugs*

 

[ansari]

:salam2:

TTI BLACK SHEEP IS HERE
urdu speakers :lol: ....
why u guys speak in URDU :angryblue: even after soo many warnings by moderators and some tti members :angryblue: >>:lol:

moderators have closed many thread because of ME i think
inshallah i will speak in URDU again ... i mean inshallah i will not sbeak in urdu again :lol: ..

make DUA for me

jazakallah khair


Oeeyyy bhaiyoo URDU mi koi baat nai karay ga :lol: i mean that NOBODY WILL SPEAK IN URDU

 

[Al-Kashmiri]

As-salaamu `alaykum

Akhi ansari, it's not something to be proud of.

 

[IbnAhmad]

Assalamu Alykum.

Bro - Ansari, you are in my Dua's InshaAllah Ta'ala. May Allah SWT increase your knowledge and keep you steadfast. Aameen.

I hope you or other Urdu speakers didn't feel offended by what I said. What I meant was that 'the behaviour of you guys after being warned was 'stupid' :lol: And that did not mean everyone, just the ones that never took heed of the warnings and continued.

Jazakallah Khair, I actually love Urdu and would love to learn one day InshaAllah.

Wassalaaam.

 

[ansari]

Assalamu Alykum.

Bro - Ansari, you are in my Dua's InshaAllah Ta'ala. May Allah SWT increase your knowledge and keep you steadfast. Aameen.

I hope you or other Urdu speakers didn't feel offended by what I said. What I meant was that 'the behaviour of you guys after being warned was 'stupid' :lol: And that did not mean everyone, just the ones that never took heed of the warnings and continued.

Jazakallah Khair, I actually love Urdu and would love to learn one day InshaAllah.

Wassalaaam.

akhi

no akhi its okayy.. i stay cool ...i just like to mess with random people :lol: .. i knw its a bad habit:shymuslima1imagine a boy)...
akhi im za one who ignored all za warnings and continued speaking in urdu. :lol: ..

ask Moderator uncle's to make a URDU section and i will teach you urdu

jazakallah khair

 

[ansari]

As-salaamu `alaykum

Akhi ansari, it's not something to be proud of.

..yea i know

 

[IbnAhmad]

akhi

no akhi its okayy.. i stay cool ...i just like to mess with random people :lol: .. i knw its a bad habit:shymuslima1imagine a boy)...
akhi im za one who ignored all za warnings and continued speaking in urdu. :lol: ..

ask Moderator uncle's to make a URDU section and i will teach you urdu

jazakallah khair

:lol: Ok Akhi. I'm glad you understand.

 

[rightpath_357]

lol Anasari- ur such a kidder!!!!

In my du'aas by the way- for some therapy!!!!!:lol:
just kidding

the sis above has a good point- we shouldn't ignore the warnings!!!!!:astag:

Salam :muslim_child:

 

[Janaan]

:salam2:

Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and the lack of moderation in our doings, and make firm our steps and succour us against those who deny the truth.(3:147)- Ameen

Our Lord! Take us not to task if we forget or fall into error. (2:286)- Ameen ya rabbal 'alameen

 

[Kakorot]

:salam2:

Am I allowed to say something ???


I have observed that urdu speaking brothers and sisters speak to each other in a way which is not within Islamic limits. My observation might be wrong....BUT ...why would you like to have useless talk with other non-mehram brothers or sisters in a blunt style. WHY???

Brothers need to learn how to interact sisters...and sisters need NOT to allow brothers to speak to them beyond certain limits. Teach them that you are respectable, dignified Muslim girl.....you have taqwa and piety...and they need to fear Allah before being blunt with you.

I assume my words would have offended many....but I am happy that I said this Alhamdolillah (I have been observing this since last 2 months).

No sister, your brave to mention this. I don't speak urdu but I understand very well and the way some brother speak to some sisters is completely against Islam. I don't bother reminding them because I don't think they will listen because they enjoy doing what they are doing. But a question for those brothers who speak this way to sisters on tti, how would you like it if a non mahram man came up to your own blood sister and spoke to her the way you speak to sisters whom you are not mahram with. I'm sure it will make you mad because you would dislike it. Likewise, don't be a hypocrite and talk to sisters unnecessarily, especially when there is no benefit in your idle speech. Lol harsh yes but it's the truth!

 

[Al-Kashmiri]

No sister, your brave to mention this. I don't speak urdu but I understand very well and the way some brother speak to some sisters is completely against Islam. I don't bother reminding them because I don't think they will listen because they enjoy doing what they are doing. But a question for those brothers who speak this way to sisters on tti, how would you like it if a non mahram man came up to your own blood sister and spoke to her the way you speak to sisters whom you are not mahram with. I'm sure it will make you mad because you would dislike it. Likewise, don't be a hypocrite and talk to sisters unnecessarily, especially when there is no benefit in your idle speech. Lol harsh yes but it's the truth!

As-salaamu `alaykum

Jazaakillaahu khayran, I too commend BinteShafi's post, may Allaah reward her. However, I think it was more than two way, i.e. it wasn't only the brothers who initiated these conversations.

Was-salaam

 

[ansari]

:salam2:

im afraid of sister Bintshafi more than Moderators here :lol:...
..Im serious ..im not kidding

 

[BinKhadija]

Asslam'u Alykum,

Being afraid of Allah might be a better idea, brother Ansari. If we (properly) realise that He is watching over us (before we post or say anthing here on the Forum, or anywhere), there's no need of being afraid of any of them. Even if sister BinteShafi doesn't notice that, He does. And we all know that very well. So, let's try to be good in His books.

Having said that, may Allah reward everyone who are trying their best to keep the environment as Islami as possible. Masha'Allah.

Just noticed, another thread had to be Locked. Same issues, again and again. I don't seem to understand how it's so hard to keep it to the rules! Subhan Allah.

Wa'salaam