thariq2005
Praise be to Allah!
As salamu alaikkum, Ok I just edited my original reply after reading all the other replies. Where are people getting the fact that the beard is not Fardh???? Oh brothers and sisters, if your not scholars then it is better for all of you to not give rulings. Oh muslims leave Islam as it came to us. Allah says that that He perfected our religion for us, so who are we to change it. Are we more knowledgeable than the prophet of Allah salallahu alaihi wa salam??? If it was for the fact that there are no more magi left, then would he salallahu alaihi wa salam not tell us to shave it off in the future. We muslims are not modernists, we are people of the Sunnah. It is as simple as ABC, we hear and obey, we hear and obey, we hear and obey... Simple and these are the characteristics of the people of Jannah. Brothers and sisters really do not let Islam get out of Hand. Yes it is fardh listening to your parents but Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam said "There is no obedience to any created being (person) if it involves disobedience to the Creator." Yes Allah T'ala says about obeying your parents but He subhana wa t'ala also says “He who obeys the Messenger has indeed obeyed Allaah . . .” [al-Nisaa’ 4:80] "
So when Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam commands us to do something, then we have to do it. And the hadith that people are referring to about the ones who recite Quran but does not go down the throat, that is referring to the Khawarij, these people are declared Kuffar. Ali (ra) fought them and killed them as well. Brother Shaheer, alhamdulillah what your doing is right and stick to it. All the ulema have said that Shaving the beard is HARAM, H-A-R-A-M!!! If there is something your doing to obey your parents that by you doing it will be against the sunnah yet permissible in islam (for example sleeping on your left side rather than the right like the Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam) then you can say its allowed. And I do not say that, the scholars do... http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/12199/sunnah parents
Since its clear that shaving the beard is Haram since its against the command of our beloved Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam, it is better that you grow it and not listen to your parents, however do try telling them nicely how it is fardh.
Ask your father a few simple questions (these are the questions I used for myself and worked alhamdulillah), ask him "Father would you come and lie down with me in my grave, or can you guarantee me that you will intercede for me on the day of judgment?? You and I know you wont or cannot, is there anything apart from my good deeds that will come with me to my grave? How can i not follow the command of the Rasool of Allah salallahu alaihi wa salam knowing that he will be the only one able to interceed for me on the Day of Judgment? How can I disobey the Rasool of Allah salallahu alaihi wa salam knowing that is disobeying Allah *referring to the verse and hadith*??"
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I don't know why but I lol'd at this for some time>> "then i just kept quiet and let him scream and i ate a lil bit and i went up to room."
Just picturing you eating while your dad is screaming, wow lol If it was me my dad will be like "Your eating while i am angry *SLAP*". It is better for you that you die a death where your parents are pleased with than a death where they are displeased with you. So try convincing them. But Inshallah your going at the right direction Alhamdulillah.
P.S Do watch your head when your eating while your dad screams ( If your asian )
Wa alaikkumus salam wa rahmathullah
So when Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam commands us to do something, then we have to do it. And the hadith that people are referring to about the ones who recite Quran but does not go down the throat, that is referring to the Khawarij, these people are declared Kuffar. Ali (ra) fought them and killed them as well. Brother Shaheer, alhamdulillah what your doing is right and stick to it. All the ulema have said that Shaving the beard is HARAM, H-A-R-A-M!!! If there is something your doing to obey your parents that by you doing it will be against the sunnah yet permissible in islam (for example sleeping on your left side rather than the right like the Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam) then you can say its allowed. And I do not say that, the scholars do... http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/12199/sunnah parents
Since its clear that shaving the beard is Haram since its against the command of our beloved Prophet Muhammed salallahu alaihi wa salam, it is better that you grow it and not listen to your parents, however do try telling them nicely how it is fardh.
Ask your father a few simple questions (these are the questions I used for myself and worked alhamdulillah), ask him "Father would you come and lie down with me in my grave, or can you guarantee me that you will intercede for me on the day of judgment?? You and I know you wont or cannot, is there anything apart from my good deeds that will come with me to my grave? How can i not follow the command of the Rasool of Allah salallahu alaihi wa salam knowing that he will be the only one able to interceed for me on the Day of Judgment? How can I disobey the Rasool of Allah salallahu alaihi wa salam knowing that is disobeying Allah *referring to the verse and hadith*??"
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I don't know why but I lol'd at this for some time>> "then i just kept quiet and let him scream and i ate a lil bit and i went up to room."
Just picturing you eating while your dad is screaming, wow lol If it was me my dad will be like "Your eating while i am angry *SLAP*". It is better for you that you die a death where your parents are pleased with than a death where they are displeased with you. So try convincing them. But Inshallah your going at the right direction Alhamdulillah.
P.S Do watch your head when your eating while your dad screams ( If your asian )
Wa alaikkumus salam wa rahmathullah