Assalaam walaikum,
Yes, Brother,
You speak the Truth. We are playing games with ourselves. What are we doing? We are as bad as those we ridicule.
We have lost our senses.
Has Allah not told us the necessity for marriage. The Prophet, ( The Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him ) showed us by example. He married old ones, he married young ones, he married divorced ones, he married abused ones, he married fat ones, he married thin ones, and he married young ones and he married widows and servants and slaves..Hello..anybody getting the clue?
We are told the average brother can not have the responsibility of more than four wives. Allah subhana wal tala has made the faith ease to follow. Brothers, why do you fear this sunna?
Sisters, where do I start with us. We argue about hijab. We play with the idea of niqab. We want education and liberation. We want it all. We forget our sisters.
In the greater scheme of things voting and driving are so trivial. How about dedicating some time to organizing a food/medicine drive for the local community. The Mothers of the Believers were active women. They were responsible women.
Sometimes, I think we need to reeducate ourselves to reflect on what these pious women thought and did. We would look like silly little girls,
I pray I did not offend anyone for speaking my heart.
dear sister,i have alot to say on your views,but dont want to get inargument,,,so ill think carefully and try to wrtie an intelligent reply