Asja
Pearl of Islaam
Assalaam walaikum,
Be careful about making generalizations.
There are many scholars who are of the opinion that a man must marry a born Muslim before a revert.
Many reverts still carry-over many of the ideas of the duyna. This can lead to problems in marriage.
I am struck by the fact that men want to marry non-Muslim European sisters. The reversion is after the marriage or for the sake of the marriage. Which lends to meeting prior to the marriage .I find it funny. Here we are discussing Saudi women voting..and the brothers justify marrying a woman of the man who is an enemy of your sisters. Look at the French and Swiss at this moment.
We really should start focusing on our brothers. It is time for them to wake up.
Brothers what are you doing..you are not manning up.
Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullah wa barakatuhu
Dear sister please be carefull with your words for the sake of Allah. Marriage is moral and religious act in Islam Alhadmulillah and it is right and duty of all Muslims who are able to marry, does not metter are they born Muslims or they have accepted Islaam.
It is not good to generaise things and seperate born Muslims and our new Muslim brothers and sisters, because we both are Muslims and the only difference between us is in our deeds and how much we are close to Allah with practising Islam.
As you have said that many reverts Muslims carry things of Dunya, Alhadmulilah we all do worry for Dunya things and there is nothing wrong in that. Islam is putting accent and importnance of Dunya and Islam is responding on all human needs Alhadmulillah. Even if new Muslims are still not so strong in their eman, there are aslo many born Muslims who are far away from Islam and the right path. Is this mean that they should never marry and fullfill their half of eman for the sake of Allah and for the sake of keeping their chasity? Alhadmulillah, Allah subhanahau wa teala gave marriege for all people and made it like obligation and right of every human being,and duty of spouses in marriage is exactly to help and support each others in strenghtening their eman and building good and strong Muslim family.
There is no any rulling in Islam which sais that one should marry new or born Muslim but that piety is the most importante Alhadmulilah.
May Allah forgive me if I said something wrong and may Allah guide us all. Allahume Ameen
Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullahi wa baarakatuhu