Now I see what you mean sis. Sorry I misunderstood you and jazakillaahu khayran for explaining. Love you too for Allaah's sake.
I personally think if one is capable of avoiding fitnah then they can stay on fb, but if they feel weak and know they may fall into haram, then they should delete it.
Sorry, but here's another vid. I like the way Yusuf Estes explains it.
Brother ahmed_indian, I'm sorry for hijacking your thread.
it's oki doki my sis
barakallah fik and yes i love you too
!!!a couple of thigs i'd like to say from your previous post(i was afraid i'd offend you if i jump on you with everything toghether)
firstly sis we stop what's bad and applaud what's good no matter what
ppl listen or not,it's up to them!!we keep our slate clean and do what we are suppose to do so don't get disheartened or say it useless if ppl don't give a damn to what you are trying to tell to them(it's in referance to the fact that only three ppl gave up foolbook when you asked them)personally i think it's an achievement even if one out of hundred listens
the prophet came to give hidaya' to the whole world...........and that never happened so is he at losss???
secondly when you don't believe in something firmly whether you show it or not what you are trying to convey doesn't hold the samw weight
you were not in favour of boycoting foolbook with all your heart so maybe you never gave it your all when you telling your freinds to boycott it!!not attacking ya my sis
just saying it's natural that you culdn't create the same effects you wanted to................althought i think three is an achievement
!!!good going ukhti
lastly,i haven't seen the vid yet,i intend to inshallah.however i wud like to share this hadith with you...........it's comes from sis alfajr's post:
Assalamu'alaykum wa rahmatullaah
At-Tirmidhee and Ibn Majah narrated that `Atiyah As-Sa`di said that the Messenger of Allaah said:
لَا يَبْلُغُ الْعَبْدُ أَنْ يَكُونَ مِنَ الْمُتَّقِينَ حَتَّى يَدَعَ مَالَا بَأْسَ بِهِ حَذَرًا مِمَّا بِهِ بَأْس
"The servant will not acquire the status of the Muttaqeen until he abandons what is harmless out of fear of falling into that which is harmful"
It was reported that `Umar bin Al-Khattab asked Ubayy bin Ka`b about Taqwa. Ubayy said, "Have you ever walked on a path that has thorns on it'' `Umar said, "Yes.'' Ubayy said, "What did you do then'' He said, "I rolled up my sleeves and struggled" Ubayy said, "That is Taqwa"
hope this conveys something
!!!it's not about feeling weak my sis it's about giving shaitan a chance to get to us!!!
but i just wanted ot make my point clear i'm not trying to force you into flushing facebook like i did!!since i believe everyone have the right to choose!!! a right given by Allah
!!and we can choose according to what we think is better for our akhira.....what we wish for!!!