Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Jazakillahu khayr sister Aisha for your work here and also to all the other brothers and sisters who work hard to do the ultimate love of trying to help someone to believe in Allaah and to understand Islaam.
However, my advice is never to get angry or upset, have patience. If someone speaks ill of Islaam or does not understand it, the onus is upon them to be researching and trying their best to understand what we say.
We are not sheep or without brains here, we find Islaam and accept it from our hearts. We know it is the truth and we have the evidence from the Qur'aan and the Sunnah. It is upon others to look and begin from the foundations up, to see what Islaam truly means.
The issue here, is firstly of pure Monotheism, Tawheed. That we worship Allaah alone, submit to Him alone, pray to him alone, "la shareeka lahu". He has no helpers, nor is he of any need of His creation. We are in need of him.
La ma'bud bi haq ila
llah, there is no Deity worthy of worship Except Allaah. - Here, this deity, can be any of the false Gods, pleasures, ideas that people take instead of Allaah. - However, Allaah is One and the Lord of all His slaves. Whether we like it or not. If a person rejects Alllah, like the atheists, or those who do Shirk by associating partners with Allaah such as the Christians, etc, they are still Allaah's Slaves ! None of us have any control over our lives, our posessions, or what the next day will bring, except through Allaah's love and mercy for His creation.
Therefore, person has two choices, either to be a disobedient Slave of Allaah, a person who rejects the Creator and sustainer of all that exists....
Or a true Slave to Allaah who submits to Allaah alone, and by submitting to Allaah, accepts the messengership of the last and final Messenger, Muhammad
Allaah the Most high said,
In the third Surah of the Qur'aan, surah Aali-Imraan:
18. Allâh bears witness that
Lâ ilâha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), and the angels, and those having knowledge (also give this witness); (He is always) maintaining His creation in Justice.
Lâ ilâh illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), the All-Mighty, the All-Wise.
19. Truly, the religion with Allâh is Islâm. Those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) did not differ except, out of mutual jealousy, after knowledge had come to them. And whoever disbelieves in the
Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses, signs, revelations, etc.) of Allâh, then surely, Allâh is Swift in calling to account.
20. So if they dispute with you (Muhammad SAW) say: "I have submitted myself to Allâh (in Islâm), and (so have) those who follow me." And say to those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) and to those who are illiterates (Arab pagans): "Do you (also) submit yourselves (to Allâh in Islâm)?" If they do, they are rightly guided; but if they turn away, your duty is only to convey the Message; and Allâh is All-Seer of (His ) slaves
[].
21. Verily! Those who disbelieve in the
Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) of Allâh and kill the Prophets without right, and kill those men who order just dealings, … announce to them a painful torment.
22. They are those whose works will be lost in this world and in the Hereafter, and they will have no helpers.
23. Have you not seen those who have been given a portion of the Scripture? They are being invited to the Book of Allâh to settle their dispute, then a party of them turn away, and they are averse.
24. This is because they say: "The Fire shall not touch us but for a number of days." And that which they used to invent regarding their religion has deceived them.
25. How (will it be) when We gather them together on the Day about which there is no doubt (i.e. the Day of Resurrection). And each person will be paid in full what he has earned? And they will not be dealt with unjustly.
26. Say (O Muhammad SAW): "O Allâh! Possessor of the kingdom, You give the kingdom to whom You will, and You take the kingdom from whom You will, and You endue with honour whom You will, and You humiliate whom You will. In Your Hand
[] is the good. Verily, You are Able to do all things.
27. You make the night to enter into the day, and You make the day to enter into the night (i.e. increase and decrease in the hours of the night and the day during winter and summer), You bring the living out of the dead, and You bring the dead out of the living. And You give wealth and sustenance to whom You will, without limit (measure or account).
If someone is sincere to learn about Islaam, then great, otherwise, this is our way, and you have your own way,
Surah 109, Surah al Kaafiroon...
1. Say (O Muhammad (Peace be upon him)to these
Mushrikûn and
Kâfirûn): "O
Al-Kâfirûn (disbelievers in Allâh, in His Oneness, in His Angels, in His Books, in His Messengers, in the Day of Resurrection, and in
Al-Qadar, etc.)!
2. "I worship not that which you worship,
3. "Nor will you worship that which I worship.
4. "And I shall not worship that which you are worshipping.
5. "Nor will you worship that which I worship.
6. "To you be your religion, and to me my religion (Islâmic Monotheism)."