Akhi inshallah allah will give barakah in your life if you will marry with 25 years old a woman who is 40 years.
Its the perfect sunnah of prophet mohammad(sw) when he first married.
i have heard from scholars that allah taala has given barakah in their life.AKhi dont ask me now about daleel. lol.
:salam2: Akhi al karim, my noble brother.
Its not "perfect Sunnah", this is how the Prophet
got married. He did not say get married to 40 year old. Rather, we act on what he suggested. That is the Sunnah.
I do not know which "scholars" told you this stuff, but you meant to marry someone you will be happy with !! You are meant spend rest of your life with them and beyond inshaAllah. There is no "sacrifice". And certainly, you shouldnt marry so hastily that you change your mind after a few weeks, months or years. This is one of the Problems with some of our brothers and sisters. They marry without really thinking things through.
Two Hadith from Sahih al Bukhari:
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 17: Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:
When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27: Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.
You should not write anything without firm Daleel. Its best to remain silent if there is none. Our Islam is based on Dalil. Saying dont ask for Dalil is not good dear brother.
So, you must have daleel that it is sunnah for 25 year old to marry a 40 year old! It is not a Sunnah. Its like saying, going into the Cave in Mount Hira is Sunnah, it is not, or going to Bosra Shaam in Syria is a Sunnah because the Prophet
went their as a child.
wasalam