Just newlywed to My husband and he tells me now that he is going to bring his mother to Sweden (were we live) and she is going to stay with us always.
She and I we have not met yet, and I have a daughter from before. My husband now says she is going to share room with our daughter. My first reaction is no. I do not want this. If his mother were ill, couldn't take care of herself etc and didn't have anyone looking after her, then of course we take her in. But she isn't, and she live next to 3 of his brothers. I have told My husband I want us at least to get to know each other first and "start" our family before we take her in for good, and that she could stay next door in an apartment, that way he Will be close to her. But this is not good enough for him, he want her in our small apartment. And this is not about visiting us for a time, this concerns her moving in for good. And I think that is an important discussion and not for him just to decide over my head. Besides that he is constantly saying she means more to him than I do and "she is over Your head", just so you know. When he say theese things doesn't make me feel so good, and I respect parents.
Is it wrong of me to say no to this or not wanting it?
Salam brothers and sisters, hope you all enjoying ramadhan. May Allah (swt) reward you
Is there wrong of me to
She and I we have not met yet, and I have a daughter from before. My husband now says she is going to share room with our daughter. My first reaction is no. I do not want this. If his mother were ill, couldn't take care of herself etc and didn't have anyone looking after her, then of course we take her in. But she isn't, and she live next to 3 of his brothers. I have told My husband I want us at least to get to know each other first and "start" our family before we take her in for good, and that she could stay next door in an apartment, that way he Will be close to her. But this is not good enough for him, he want her in our small apartment. And this is not about visiting us for a time, this concerns her moving in for good. And I think that is an important discussion and not for him just to decide over my head. Besides that he is constantly saying she means more to him than I do and "she is over Your head", just so you know. When he say theese things doesn't make me feel so good, and I respect parents.
Is it wrong of me to say no to this or not wanting it?
Salam brothers and sisters, hope you all enjoying ramadhan. May Allah (swt) reward you
Is there wrong of me to