salam aleikum
I just want to share something that has been bothering me recently ,and something that I have noticed in many MASJIDS..
Why is that in every Masjid,Im talking about women's area ,there would be people pointing at you and telling you what to do?
I've seen it so many times ,where other sisters would comment on somebody's prayer or clothes or jewelry...
Yes I agree there is nothing wrong in giving advice,but in proper manner ..
And before even giving that advice why nobody even come and ask the sister ,whats her name ,her background and trying to know her ..
We are the ones who turning people away from masjids ,especially reverts .
I am as a revert ,has experienced this many many times and I tried to stay strong and ignore ,even though many times I told myself I dont want to go to Masjid again ,because of people always say something..
WHY dont everyone focus on their own deeds,their own looks,their own Salah ,why picking on others ? On little mistakes or differences ..
I'm jost so annoyed of this attitude ,of looks ,of remarks..
Where is the compation for each other and understanding ?
Please before giving remarks or judging each other in the Masjid ,get to know each other ,get to know everyones condition and background ....Please ,please ,please
waaleikum salam
I just want to share something that has been bothering me recently ,and something that I have noticed in many MASJIDS..
Why is that in every Masjid,Im talking about women's area ,there would be people pointing at you and telling you what to do?
I've seen it so many times ,where other sisters would comment on somebody's prayer or clothes or jewelry...
Yes I agree there is nothing wrong in giving advice,but in proper manner ..
And before even giving that advice why nobody even come and ask the sister ,whats her name ,her background and trying to know her ..
We are the ones who turning people away from masjids ,especially reverts .
I am as a revert ,has experienced this many many times and I tried to stay strong and ignore ,even though many times I told myself I dont want to go to Masjid again ,because of people always say something..
WHY dont everyone focus on their own deeds,their own looks,their own Salah ,why picking on others ? On little mistakes or differences ..
I'm jost so annoyed of this attitude ,of looks ,of remarks..
Where is the compation for each other and understanding ?
Please before giving remarks or judging each other in the Masjid ,get to know each other ,get to know everyones condition and background ....Please ,please ,please
waaleikum salam