Raised where? On the Judgement day? Well if you are talking about that then let me say that this world is different from the hereafter. Here you are linked to your father's name while in hereafter with your mother.
Here you feel emotions, you love your family and friends, there you wont bother for anyone.
Similarly here we have our different identities and there we'll have same.
If you accept that since we'll be raised as a Muslim then also remember that there we wont have any love for our family in hereafter so why not to practice living without loving and caring for them?
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The hereafter and this world is different, in the sense that this world is a prison for the believers. But, it is a test that we have to undergo to make ourselves worthy for the hereafter.
Here you feel emotions, you love your family and friends etc, alright - who puts love in the hearts of people for their family and friends? Allah. And Allah has told you through the Prophet SAW how to live this life if you want to be worthy of the paradise in the hereafter. So, it is the love for Allah that make us love his creations. We love what Allah loves and hate what he hates. We love what the Prophet SAW loves and we hate what he hates.
Let me tell you what Prophet SAW said about this world to show you the worthiness of this world -
Narrated Mujahid:
`Abdullah bin `Umar said, "Allah's Apostle took hold of my shoulder and said, 'Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler." The sub-narrator added: Ibn `Umar used to say, "If you survive till the evening, do not expect to be alive in the morning, and if you survive till the morning, do not expect to be alive in the evening, and take from your health for your sickness, and (take) from your life for your death."
Narrated `Abdullah:
The Prophet drew a square and then drew a line in the middle of it and let it extend outside the square and then drew several small lines attached to that central line, and said, "This is the human being, and this, (the square) in his lease of life, encircles him from all sides (or has encircled him), and this (line), which is outside (the square), is his hope, and these small lines are the calamities and troubles (which may befall him), and if one misses him, an-other will snap (i.e. overtake) him, and if the other misses him, a third will snap (i.e. overtake) him."
Our families, friends are nothing but trials and tribulations for us, we love them for the sake of Allah.
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "Allah says, 'I have nothing to give but Paradise as a reward to my believer slave, who, if I cause his dear friend (or relative) to die, remains patient (and hopes for Allah's Reward).
Narrated Qais:
I heard Khabbab, who had branded his `Abdomen with seven brands, saying, "Had Allah's Apostle not forbidden us to invoke Allah for death, I would have invoked Allah for death. The companions of Muhammad have left this world without taking anything of their reward in it (i.e., they will have perfect reward in the Hereafter), but we have collected of the worldly wealth what we cannot spend but on earth (i.e. on building houses).
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet did not eat at a table till he died, and he did not eat a thin nicely baked wheat bread till he died.
Narrated `Aisha:
When the Prophet died, nothing which can be eaten by a living creature was left on my shelf except some barley grain. I ate of it for a period and when I measured it, it finished.
Narrated Al-Mughira bin Shu`ba:
The Prophet used to pray so much that his feet used to become edematous or swollen, and when he was asked as to why he prays so much, he would say, "Shall I not be a thankful slave (to Allah)?"
May these Hadith soften your heart brother. There are angels who prostrate all their life... some spend their lives in rukuh and some in sujood. They don't sleep at all, because they are afraid to miss any command from Allah.
Don't get attached or carried away by this life brother. We are in this world for only one objective - To worship and serve Allah. And everything you do as the Prophet SAW said is a form of service to Allah. Charity, loving your family, children, spending and providing for them. These are all good deeds for which you will be rewarded. We do it for the sake of Allah.
Allah is the source of life, love, strength, emotions and everything. He gives the sustenance. We should spend what he gives in his way - money, life and relatives.
Think about it brother.
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