Just a Guy
Reinventing Myself
just a guy well i say Deen over Dunya
Exactly. 'tis how it should be.
just a guy well i say Deen over Dunya
Is funny how I read this post just when I was observing this amongst many sisters I know. They are all professional, religious strong young women who had found their soulmates in men that were a bit younger than them. They have mashaa'Allah chosen them because of their deen and their relationships are strong and full of blessings.
I do have a question that might anger some of you, but I have to ask.
OK, so marriage is supposed to be half of the deen, right? So does that mean that I am less of a person because I am still single?
Nope ,, but indeed marriage is halvf of your Deen
and the prophet sws Naseeha was Get marride while you are young and if you can ,,, one should try her or his best ,, to get it it is a big Barakah in it ,, mashallah
thas very interesting to read ..maybe because younger men are turning back to stronger faith,,,that might have been lost in those before..especially among arab people
True most men I see that don't care about age are indeed strong in faith. I also think is because some (and the keyword is some) young girls have many unrealistic dreams about their "prince charming" they want a good looking guy who is cool and has money and is this and that and the other. I've been there lol but time and knowledge teaches you that what in the end will benefit you is a man strong in his deen. This realization sometimes comes after time, some self-evaluation and when you become closer to Allah.
Well that won't happen for a while. I realize now that I have to be happy with myself if I am ever to have a meaningful relationship, and I am not there right now.
[30:21] Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think.