SalmanFarsi
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rush to it
I always hear the older generation say "don't rush to marriage" and that has always bothered me. why not?
I think as long as you are convinced that the other person is a good muslim and capable of supporting himself and a wife [and is not psychologically crazy], Then there is nothing to worry about. You have a guarantee that if you ever have a problem, all you both have to do is take it to Quran and Sunnah and it'll be fixed.
I have heard a sister who rejected a good brother because she likes to ski and he doesn't. That is when i realized how you can destroy your life by *not rushing* and making sure the other person matches exactly the 1000 things you like to do. And that is when I realized the wisdom behind the hadeeth that was mentioned in starting this thread.
you simply can not get married for reasons that are not life-long. Religion is. Beauty/Wealth is not.
walhamdulilahi rabbeel alameen.
Salman
I always hear the older generation say "don't rush to marriage" and that has always bothered me. why not?
I think as long as you are convinced that the other person is a good muslim and capable of supporting himself and a wife [and is not psychologically crazy], Then there is nothing to worry about. You have a guarantee that if you ever have a problem, all you both have to do is take it to Quran and Sunnah and it'll be fixed.
I have heard a sister who rejected a good brother because she likes to ski and he doesn't. That is when i realized how you can destroy your life by *not rushing* and making sure the other person matches exactly the 1000 things you like to do. And that is when I realized the wisdom behind the hadeeth that was mentioned in starting this thread.
you simply can not get married for reasons that are not life-long. Religion is. Beauty/Wealth is not.
walhamdulilahi rabbeel alameen.
Salman