Brother Tic_tac_toe and sister Aapa,
please do not contribute explicit material on this website. There are young teens who browse this website and your x-rated posts are destroying their morality. have shame. this sort of talk should be limited to brothers only section and sisters only section.
Edit: I take that back. Please don't write this stuff EVEN in the brothers or sisters only section. I just read all the posts here and I noticed that you're suggesting for sisters to purchase and read a filthy ancient polytheistic book called Kama Sutra. (Not karma, btw)
First of all, This book is haram because it is based on Hindu philosophy. Second, our sisters did not subscribe to this website to learn about private matters. They simply came here to learn about pleasing Allaah, not their spouses. Even if they do wish to please their spouses, they will choose to read Qur'aan and ahadith to learn what private acts are lawful and unlawful.
This is not a laughing matter. I'm not sure i saw smiley faces and "giggling". Such topics should be kept personal, and if one ever has a personal question, such question should be asked in private sections
I know how the original topic moved to jinn/evil and all that because those things are part of trials and tribulations, however, I'm totally lost when it comes to jinn possession and "sexual frasturation." We were talking about jinn and evil eye that happens to Muslims...how that relates to sex or comes back to it, I'm still trying to figure that out.
There are people who never ever get married and are never possessed or never experience any sort of anxiety or frasturation or depression. There are people who are happily married yet experience evil eye and jinn possession. Sex has nothing to do with it.
I agree with sisters Ni'mah and Islamerica,I'm not puritan,but there are some matters which is better to discuss in other places.nobody here was discussiong about such an intimal matter:sex is what beasts do.humans make love in the name of Allah
my post wasn't adressed to anybody of you,it was my agreement with some members who have got my same thought.that book has nothing to do with Islam,we should stay far from that Fitnah.there is something more "opressing" and it is on internet.there are a lot of sites,where a "slave" of sex can find its "satisfactions",and I don't go over.
this thread was about the benefits of trial,and here there is nothing to do with this topic.it can be started a new thread about jinn(even if there are a lots)or about mental disease.
the trials of life go beyond these material matters.There are people who can't finish the month because of the loss of money,and they maybe have children to bring up.I don't think that people like them,who face a real problem,have the time to feel sexually frustrated.
we can't compare ourselves to others,we,as muslims,should "fly higher",but it isn't so.Caste system belongs to kafar's world.what has it to do with us?Allah will judge everyone for his misdeeds,we should help others to open their eyes to the reality,but sharing matters like sex or Zionism,is like giving to these things the rightness to exist.
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My posts are neither edited nor removed and after reading it multiple times I cannot see where I have discussed vulgarity or material which is unsuitable for children but everyone is still requested to point it explicitly what I have said which is unsuitable?
Please don't make assumptions about what I have written, go through it and point out the mistakes. I did merely answered Aapa and even my response contains nothing explicit.
Very good point! I understand that sister Aapa's past experience with her spouse led her to have this disinhibited nature. .
This is a forum which is visited by many people who may be new or are not ware of history of the posters so is it morally responsible or Isamically permissible for you to reveal things about people's past?
I was merely responding to a post with no idea about a poster's background and more importantly why should I care as isn't it stereotyping? Please correct me if I am wrong.