Asalam Alakum,
Alright im gonna be straight up, those of u who know me from the past know that ana ma ahib al lef wel dawaran(I dont like going in circles), so by my comment i hope i dont offend anyone and if u feel offended please dont send me a PM message threatening me( i do enjoy them though) u can reply back infront of everyone and say what u got to say, we got nothing to hide, we are a family here.
The hardest part about marriage to me and to most of my girl friends is finding the right spouse.
There are girls who look for the mans looks and how much he got in his pockets. And they dont really care weather his heart beats for them. Well i aint like that. The kind of husband i want is a husband that doesnt care about my U.S passport. I want a man who's desire in life is to please Allah and not to please the hot chicks across the street.
Im from Yemen and i know my country isnt the only country who acts this way. Some yemeni's come ask for ur hand because they want to enter America and they dont care whether u have deen, eman, or beauty ( please, most of them dont even know anything about u but that u have the passport).
I dont want a man whos eman is weak what will i do with him. I dont want a man who i will fight with all the time about prayer( we know theres alot of men these days who hardly pray at all). I dont want a man who will feed me haram.
I want a man who doesnt make a move unless he knows it pleases Allah. Now a days its hard to find that.
"In Allah yahdi men yasha" and Insha Allah he ihdees everyone.
P.s Please excuse my ghetto, im from Brooklyn what u expect.
Salam,