Assalam alaikum.
Well I guess I'm the only one that thinks that it wasn't that bad. A cold shower is more irritating than painful and she made him spit out the chilli sauce. And at least it's food (and tasty if you're actually planning to eat it).
A lot of kids cry when they are told they can't play or if they receive any form of punishment (eg. "no more cartoons for a week").... I still think this is a lot better than kids from the subcontinent that get severe physical beatings as a punishment.
Also, if this really was abuse that bad, she wouldn't allow Dr. Phil's camera crew to come into her house and film it. Anyways, that's my opinion.
Assalam alaikum.
Wa alaykum assalam,
There are treats that mums can decide and act upon than such ones. Honestly I heard the hot sauce way first time. Akhi, from personal childhood experiences I will say that the children are going to make mistakes, they are going to lie, break tubelights by cricket ball )I did, and many other things on list. It do not mean that parents have to be like this brutal.Such behaviours from parents even suppresses the good creativity that every child naturally has. There is a fear that such oppressed children always remain in social anxiety and show abnormality. I say this because that I ‘ve seen and observed in some cases as when parents are beyond what they should when that comes to discipline. The mental damage they do to a child..
Likewise my own childhood experience not with parents though. when I was in 5 th grade and sitting in a class-room and the teacher was teaching, I don’t remember what I did, (a mischief or what !), but the teacher sprinted at me, lifted me by shirt collar, slapped me 5-6 in rows and inverted my school-bag on the floor. The embarrassing thing was my books, materials all running on floor and all the fellas watched me. Much painful was embarrassment than blows on chin and face. Honestly I didn’t expected teachers to be such, contrary to expecting them as quite forebearing and caring and letting positivity out of you. And I had such a sir in my secondary standard.
The child expect much more than this from the mother or father.I suppose every child do wrongs and are eligible to be treated but not in a fashion that would damp them.