Basicofislam
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:salam2: I am having a baby girl in a few months. I didnt know how much people want a boy till i learned what i was having. My friend is having a baby boy and she is very excited and said i should have asked Allah for a boy. But i only asked that i have a healthy baby. Even relatives say to me we wish it was a boy. Are we not muslims and believe in Allah that girl or a boy they are both a blessing. Another family friend had twin boys. I went to visit her. Her mother was there and said oh boys are nayma of Allah and girls are rehma. In short she was saying that when Allah blesses you with a son it is nayma and a bigger blessing. Why after reading the Quran and believing in Allah muslims talk like this talk. It reminds me of jahiliya even now.What do you guys feel about this.