Lol. walaikum wasalam. i'm laughing cause i was just talking to someone who was asking me related things to marriage. lol. subhanAllah. anyhow, my reasons are as follows: 1- i don't find any of the men whom i meet suitable for me( deen wise) 2- i'm not in the mood for any relationships, somehow i find them to be troublesome and people go overboard with it. 3- i'm just not interested in any guy whatsoever and most of the ones whom are interested in me have basically been stalking me for years or months. I find that disgusting and i'm talking about the ones who are known to be "religious", honestly. i just received an email two days ago from someone whom i knew was interested in me, they were afraid to tell me face to face so he sent these love poems and sweet talks to my email inbox. he hasn't figured it out yet that i know who he is. the poems, although written well were to me a stupid idea b/c he doesn't even know, so how dare he send me love poems and describe me in his poems. So i abruptly said no, and i did it politely because i really don't like to be rude but in the end they asked for it. He knows about my entire life - and basically freaked me out, and to this moment i'm not even sure if the guy i'm talking about is the right one, cause he refused to disclose his name and expected me to "accept" him because he believes im "non-judgemental", i may not be but i'm sure as heck not gonna start a relationship with someone whom doesn't even know me. sorry for the long talk. lol, i had to say something. 4- in conclusion, i STRONGLY believe that a person will not surpass the decree( Qadr) of Allah, so no matter how much people advise me to marry from a close relative or tribe or culture, i pay no attention to that - what Allah swt decrees and plans will take place. so i trust in Him to plan the best for me. and i know He will. He does no injustice, even the size of an atom to his servants. 5- to answer your Question, Yes! i'm still Single! and Alhamdulillah!