marzuki mohamed
Junior Member
all,
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i don't hv any problem marrying a girl with purdah..
wasalam.
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i don't hv any problem marrying a girl with purdah..
wasalam.
brother islamicfajr, Jazak Allah for the links, but i'm not saying wearing the hijab is bad , otherwise i wouldn't be wearing it myself lol
i don't think anyone got my point here,
but in france, to tell u the truth, and i precise i live in a little city, where i don't meet ppl often , so my experience is only limited to university and what happens there,
yes sister Alhamdulillah, n that's because of we keep in our mind this Hadeethso i have noticed that males say they don't look at beauty but want a pious woman who is humble and has haya by wearing the hijab,
but in my uni, i've noticed, males they respect of course hijabi girls, but they prefer marrying fashionable good looking girls,
or u know sometimes, hijab doesn't suit every girl, some look better without it, and on some it looks really good, they look prettier in hijab,
and what i've seen through my friend, is that the males in my uni who look for pious girls, in fact they still look at their appearance that's why my friend she isn't managing to find any husband
well personnaly, i just said that as a remark because for me, in my culture parents arrange marriages, so we don't have to look by ourselves like some sisters have to do at uni, because in their culture, they choose by themselves , and i'm happy in our culture it's like this , because i don't know if in islam, u can't talk to opposite gender, how can u choose by urself ur husband? plus i think at our age at uni we are too young to get married, but if some sisters want , it's not bad either
salamo o alikom
it s very important subject. I am looking to marry. the criteria that islam advise to chose the wife and (husband for woman) are very clear: the one who have Deen (muslim) and muslim in the correct sens not our ``muslims`` days (Hijab with Levis Jean and 100 Lbs of make up). my problem is that how can i found this person???? sometimes i think that i can marry a ``muslim`` girl and after we will study andhelp each other to imporve our Deen. I am far to be perfect and good muslim, so i don t expect what i don t have. But all what i want is a woman that can help me to keep the right way. But for sure i want a real hijab
salamo alikom
Assalmoelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,
What does imaan Mean?
Imaan is something which takes place in the heart and the tong and other body parts are following what's in the heart ( imaan). I don't talk about hypocrites, because they don't have imaan.
If some people are covering themselfs with Niqaab, but afterwards they invite people for adultery when their husband are at work, there is something wrong with their imaan.
And also you cannot generalise.
Yes your imaan is in your heart, but it has to be followed by actions of the body parts.
Like we know imaan increases and decreases.
There are differences in Imaan. More imaan means more beloved to Allah. Ma3asie ( sins) decrease imaan and tha3a increase imaan.
Wassalmoelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,
Imad
: May Allah reward us all and bless all of the singles out there with suitable matches Inshallah (including me).....................
Assalamu alaikum warahamatullahi wabarakatuhu.
the name is Abou Haytam and u said u r not married. :O
how is it possible that u r the Abu of Haytam and not yet married ?
lol jus curious to know wat ur name/id means